Tuesday, 04 September 2012
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New Trends in Dating: What Hasn't Been Covered on Datingish?
This post was submitted anonymously.
I've seen some posters complain about the lack of "new" dating topics in the dating forum, but it's not like they're submitting anything new either so it's a bit hypocritical for them to complain about the lack of "new" topics when they haven't submitted anything new themselves. So here's your chance, if you have new dating material to post about, please discuss it now.
I really can't recall any new dating topic that hasn't already been discussed, just updated to modern times and such. What are some new trends in dating that you have recently heard about or is it pretty much all the same, just modified?Here are a couple of topics that have been discussed a lot. Careful to repeat the topics otherwise it will agitate the hardcore posters.
1) Having Sex with Strangers...talking about having sex period.
2) Commitment/Non-Commitment
3) Dating a Friend's ex or past Fling - off limits?
4) Gay/Bi/Transexual/Straight, etc. has all been discussed
5) Abortion/Pro-Life
6) Religion and Dating
7) Needing or not needing music during intimate moments
8) Not having enough common interests/having too much
9) Apparently cheaters/other mistresses/other man have been discussed to death
10) Matching Couple Outfits
11) Sibling/family rivalry
12) Dating an abusive SO/Drug Addicts/Alcoholics
13) Breaking up with technology
What else could we Datingish posters have possibly forgotten to discuss? When trying to come up with a new topic, I haven't seen this one at all I don't think: doing it in the butt. We have definitely discussed having sex on her period, but what about anal? Are you a fan of Anal? I'll try nearly everything once if it's one-on-one with a person, but most guys I've talked to are disgusted by the idea of doing Anal.
Would it turn you off if someone was into Anal? I've actually had a friend of mine tell me that one of his guy friends always brags about his girlfriend letting him do anal.
What can you bring to the table for discussion? What are some topics that haven't been covered?
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Anal is RAD when you trust your partner to do it in a way that's comfortable for you! That is my response to that. lol. It wouldn't turn me off at all. It would if that is ALL he was into or wanted it waaaaaay too often. Butt needs time.
Anyway another topic discussed too much is telling your parents or introducing your SO to friends. I would like to discuss how people got to the stage of their long term relationships where they decide to be together indefinitely and how those who casually date/ care for no commitment can do that. That's an idea.I was just bout to say pegging, but doing it in the butt it is! I don't want to be the receiver. I want to be the dominant pegger
I also want to use male sex toys on him. I don't want to be the nurse; I'll be the examiner/doctor
need not worry, I'll be gentle.
I have an idea that I haven't seen yet, but I'm saving that one to post later this month.
I want to see an article written by TheNotoriousDoucheBag and T3h. All they ever do is sit there saying, this is wrong in the post, that is wrong in the post. Let's see 'em talk big and write a "new" article. I remember TheNotoriousDingBat saying that he had tried to submit articles before but his never got published, what's that say about his articles? Yet I find it funny he sits here and trashes everyone's articles and there are people who actually agree with what the troll says.
His articles suck so much that they didn't even get published, lmfao. Looks like it wasn't "new." But I'd love for datingish to publish something by TheNotoriousGOD. I wanna see his grammar and writing etiquette. This will be fun.
@Guest - I thought you had to intern or be apart of staff to post. Or, can anyone can submit, but not everyone's submissions are published due to staff discretion?
Anywho, there have been a lot of interracial topics here and there. I found those to be the most interesting. I like reading about culture clashes in relationships. Even amongst the same race there are different cultures, religions etc. It's all been posted before. I think. It's nice to hear how people over come that obstacle.
I haven't been on here long enough, but has anyone talked about 3-somes or swinging? Usually it's the guy who initiates the suggestion. Usually the girl's perspective is "legitimized cheating" (depending on the emotional maturity of the couple). But what if the girl wants to incorporate a 3rd or 4th party in the relationship. Not to be had outside of the relationship, but WITH the S/O. Is that weird? How would guys feel if the gf presented this instead, for a change? Are there any girls interested in that kind of thing? Too shy to ask or is that the guy's duty to fulfill? Or just not open to it at all?
And of course (after a few clicks) I see this post, lololololol.
http://www.datingish.com/767638039/monogamy-no-open-relationship-maybe/?=itemrelatedI've seen a blog about anal sex, but it wasn't on Datingish. And yeah, I'm tired of a lot of the topics on Datingish because it's the same shit (hehe) every single time. At least this anal this is different and interesting.
And psh! A lot of guys I know will tell me they'd never do anal because it sounds disgusting. I mean, it's the butt where all the poo comes out. But secretly, they're curious and want to try. A quick word of advice for first time anal receivers: if the guy has a huge penis, have him get you a little more used to anal with fingers and small sex toys before you let him in. It'll probably be easier on your butt. Or just don't have anal sex with a guy who's huge in every way when you're really tiny like me. I had to learn the hard way. Owwwie.
Anal can be great fun, its like @ShirleyD@xanga said, trust, comfort and taking your time. Don't go watching porn and then try to imitate it, someone will end up in the hospital or very sore.
I actually do not care to suggest topics.
@ShirleyD@xanga - ha i've gotten a loooot of messages about that last point over the years, and i've thought for a while about writing something...i can never convince myself i'd be able to write an exhaustive list of reasons though. maybe some day in the distant future, haha.