Monday, 03 September 2012
This post was submitted anonymously.
Recently, I started talking to someone new. I then found out that he's still seriously talking to his ex while at the same time doing things with me. Sometimes I just want to find out who these exes are and ask them why they are still trying to be with a guy who isn't giving his full attention to her? They may think he is, but he isn't. Perhaps that's how they want it to be; they aren't official so she can see other people while at the same time seeing their main squeeze. It's unfair to others they are seeing who aren't seeing anyone else.
Would it make me look "psycho" to warn people how their ex is trying to have his cake and eat it, too?
If someone came up to you and said something about the ex you were trying to get back with, wouldn't that be doing a favor to show he is not making you his priority but an option? If I found out an ex was "trying" to get back with me while hooking up and dating other people at the same time, I would want someone to tell me because I am not going to waste my time on only being an option.
Is it so much to ask for a one-woman kind of guy? It'd get tiring for me to juggle people around like they were nothing.