When I first started having sex, the setting had to always be one prepared for romance. Lights low or off, television off, R&B/Soul on. It had become a necessity that I didn't even realize. Until I noticed, it wasn't me who always had these things in tact and prepared, but also my significant other who'd take the time to make the romantic gesture -- and I loved it!
Now, I couldn't care less about the mood and just focus on the act that follows the preparation. Reflecting, I've had some sexy ass sex to my favorite artists and some who became my favorite after the ballads they belted for my sexual soundtrack. But it's now become a special occasion prop. Like candles. Sure, they smell good and make the lighting in the room much more erotic, but will you really care about them once your clothes hit the floor?
I'm all for romance and "setting the mood." At one point, that's all I'd done. But, though I love the intensity it brings when you're lost in the moment, I no longer look for music as a MUST have to enjoy sex.
Do you? Is music a necessity when it comes to getting you in the mood? What's the most memorable song you've had sex or made love to? Image Source