Thursday, 23 August 2012
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So, my boyfriend and I have been together a long time. We now go to college in the same city, but not the same school. This year, he became really close to another girl. We'll call her S.
He considers S his best friend. Whenever I visit him, I have to spend time with her, too. In her room, in the dining hall, etc. He pays special attention to her when she speaks and he often stares at her. He has called her pretty, beautiful, precious, and all sorts of different names. He has pictures of her laughing on his phone and when I was in her room last I saw a picture of her - drawn by my boyfriend. He tells our old friends about her and her interests even though they will probably never meet her.
I've also been told he has no problem holding her hand, hugging her, getting up in her space, etc.
But still, on the flip side, he often makes time for just us when I visit. He makes sure that I am comfortable and happy and is affectionate with me, etc. We still text and Skype all the time, but he just seems so infatuated with that girl. I do not know what to do.
What do you all think?