Tuesday, 21 August 2012
This post was submitted anonymously.
Having sex on the first day is frowned upon by many, especially when a person may want it to be more than just a good time. However, sometimes things just happen spontaneously in the moment. Have you ever had sex with someone the first day you met them? Did it become anything more?
The person I was with for a long time, I waited two and a half weeks to have sex with and we are still hanging out to this day. But more so as good friends now. I've had one or two experiences where I've never seen the guy again. I didn't even necessarily want a relationship with them, to be friends.
Recently, I met someone new and I had sex with him on the first day. We're pretending it didn't happen because it's kind of an awkward situation and it was very spontaneous. I wasn't planning on hooking up with anyone that night, but it happened. We're both single though, so no cheating. Some people think first date sex means that the person won't respect the other party.
How long did you wait to do the deed with your partner?