I met this guy almost 7 weeks ago on a night out. We were both very drunk and we ended up having great sex. We seemed to get on very well together as well. However, he has been fairly inconsistent with keeping in contact like texting and Facebook messaging.
But whenever he does chat with me, we always have good conversations and he leaves kisses and cute emoticons all the time. At the start, he liked a couple of my statuses and then he decided to message me first after a week of not hearing from him. He has always brought up that he wants to meet me again. He keeps calling me gorgeous as well. However, it wasn't until 6 weeks later that we finally met up.
We got on very well together again (sex included) and we seemed to have a lot in common; he acknowledged that. He said that my friends and his friends have to meet up for a night out. He bought all of my drinks that night as well. He also said that I shouldn't worry if he doesn't text me back because he is not really into texting or he is terrible at texting back, something like that anyway.
He drove me home the next day and said he would give me a text later. He never did but that didn't bother me.
So I just decided to text him the next day but he never texted back. He was on Facebook when I was online and he never bothered to write to me. He didn't stay on for very long, either. He did that a couple of times a few weeks ago as well-he would go online and not bother writing to me first. In between those times, I have decided to message him first twice on Facebook because he initiated the first 2 times.
Anyway, he was the same as always and kept bringing up that we have to meet up again.
So back to my query about him not bothering to write to me first on Facebook and not staying online for very long either. Why is he doing that? Is that a sign he's just not that interested in me and is using me for sex? Or is he waiting for me to message him first? Does he think I am starting to become clingy by me messaging him first the last 2 times and then texting him on Sunday when he didn't text me Saturday?
By the way, I sent him the message twice because my phone is kinda fucked and I thought it didn't send, so maybe he thinks that's a desperate move? Finally, he works every day and lives over an hour away from me so he wouldn't have time to meet up with me during the week.
Do you think he is genuinely interested in me or just using me for sex? Be honest!