Tuesday, 14 August 2012
This post was submitted anonymously.
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and I've never met any of his friends or family members. He has few friends because he's more of a loner, but he's very close to his family. Sometimes his brother and cousins will arrange to go out of town for the weekend and his brother will bring his girlfriend, but my boyfriend has NEVER invited me.
Even when they go to local places like an amusement park, they will all go and he'll tell me he's there but he wont invite me to come along. I don't know if it's because he's ashamed of me, and I highly doubt he has another girlfriend. He's had girlfriends in the past and they've all met his brother and cousins; he was with those women for a shorter amount of time.
I have a hard time asking him. It's a really touchy topic for me because the first guy I was ever with was ashamed to tell people we were together, so it's kinda like deja vu. Also, we're not a very public couple. We'll go out to public places but we're not the kind of couple that takes photos together and broadcasts our relationship.
I just wanted some advice based on his behavior.