When I was in high school, I had a friend who was obsessed with guy's arms. She couldn't think a guy was cute unless he had nice arms. I learned early in our friendship that if I were to tell her about a guy I thought was cute, I should tell her not about his dreamy eyes or his fabulous hair, but how big his arms were.
I never quite understood her obsession, and don't to this day. Sure, I like nice arms as much as the next girl, but they're certainly not a physical dealbreaker.
In fact, I don't think I like any part of the male body enough to have it make or break my attraction to someone. For me, that physical dealbreaker would probably be height. Then again, I barely scrape 5'4, so I've never had that issue come up.
I guess I do really like guys' hair, but that's because I like playing with it more than anything else. My ex had gorgeous silky hair that I liked to stroke. My current boyfriend has more of a buzz cut, but that's fun too since it's so different from mine.
But I generally find out how soft a guys' hair is after I touch it, and that doesn't occur until after we've already been intimate in some capacity. I suppose I might look at a guys' hair, realize it was horribly crunchy and gel-filled, and be completely turned off. But that hasn't happened yet. And let's be honest - if he were hot enough, I probably wouldn't mind so much.
I've never met anybody who was as obsessed with arms as my friend, but I know several people who are particularly attracted to a specific body part. Many like abs, or eyes. My mother always notices the alignment of a man's teeth. And of course there's the age-old question about women - breasts or butt?
So what about you? What's your favorite part of a romantic interest's body?Image Source
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Just one? How about two? Anyway, I'm into my significant other's butt. I love his tush and I'm always grabbing it and squeezing it. And I love his beautiful brown eyes. The way he looks at me always puts a smile on my face.
I'd say shoulders. My boyfriend and his broad shoulders are just yumm. :]
Specifically? The perineum.
To be totally honest and straightforward, I find all aspects of the vagina absolutely fascinating, physically speaking.
It's one of the few things that make me question whether there is a God... and if there is, I want him to tell me how He came up with the idea.
Or eyes... they're equally as fascinating, visually speaking.
@T3hZ10n@xanga - I agree, it is fascinating to me that I can fit my fist in my vagina, yet the idea of a penis going in there seems unpleasant
On a side note I like tidy nails/toenails.
@Trueinnerbeauty@lovelyish - Haha, wow.
@Trueinnerbeauty@lovelyish - wow indeed lol.. what about someone else's fist?
I'm a sucker for gorgeous eyes. As far as the guy I'm into now, it's not about their color as much as the "sparkle" that comes from within, and the adorable little crinkles that form around his eyes when he smiles and laughs...yeah his eyes are hypnotizing and when he smiles through them it's like time slows down for a moment...
Forearms! Love them. And butts.
mine is also height. I'm just not that attracted to guys who aren't over 6' tall. I don't like them that tall though. anything over 6'4" is too tall. so 6'1" to 6'3" is my ideal. the 3 guys that I've swooned over were coincidentally all right between that height at 6'2" and all vietnamese. viets are usually short guys, but they happened to be the exception, and they were probably mixed french. I never really asked them if they were mixed, but that's my guess why they're taller than the norm. however, I'm not attracted to guys just because he's tall. I just look at him and know if I'm attracted, so it is a case by case basis. I saw a few tall guys the other day and they were attractive, but I just wasn't that attracted to them despite their height. I think it was their body frame. it wasn't toned enough. I noticed this male mannequin as I was window shopping at ralph lauren and thought to myself how hot the mannequin's body type looked. so I was checking out a mannequin that day and didn't look twice at those guys so I'm usually attracted to supermodel type of bodies and height, similar of that of designer mannequins
I think my boss has this type of tall, slim, model-like sleek body frame that appeals to me. his hairstyle, face, smile, voice, the way he wears clothes is just damn, he wears them well! he isn't super buff though. I can't tell if he has muscles underneath his suit, but I bet he's toned. his butt looks toned. that's the only part that is giving me a hint that the rest of his body might also be just as toned. his side profile, front profile and overall physical frame is just swoon at first sight
he looks like a supermodel, which isn't realistic to the rest of the population. I want what I can't have. I usually don't bother to look at guys slightly taller, who have toned bodies. they just don't seem to have that charisma that I'm drawn to. I think my boss has that smile that just melts me. oh yeah, and imagining having sex with a short guy just doesn't turn me on. I don't feel that powerful presence hovering above me as I would with a tall guy. I like being easily carried around like a doll. a buff shorter guy could probably carry me with ease, but I like long armspans. so I think I sort of narrowed it down to what I like; long toned armspans. I like hugs from tall guys where I'm snuggling beneath their armpit. I feel more secure knowing that the guy's body frame is twice that of mine.
Voice. Absolutely have done 180 degree turnarounds and ran into things because I heard a beautiful voice talking behind me.
Venus dimples are nice too...
Beard...always the beard.
Arms, smile, back and eyes.
Bone structure. The prominent brow, and the jaw...
It depends how naked they are....
Breasts are pretty awesome on women but that doesn't count as a romantic interest. Actually, I dig a man's chest as well. I'm attracted to intense eyes.
As for my husband, he's very overweight. He's strong, but not toned at all. I like his penis. I don't mean that in a purely sexual sense. I just like playing down there, even without any "goal".
@Trueinnerbeauty@lovelyish - Ouchies. I think two fingers is my limit.
@VampireOfSeduction@xanga - this discovery was the result of an intense game of truth or dare LOL
@modnarm@xanga - it wasn't the most comfortable experience, but I suppose when I have a significant other we could investigate the possiblility@T3hZ10n@xanga - it's something I put on my sexual resume :P@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga - I'm 6'4"... but I'm taken. *sigh*
@T3hZ10n@xanga - I'm taken, too, but I still check out tall people and sexy mannequins
i thought more people would say pecs.
I love my boyfriend's arms and chest <3 Nom.
For some reason, I love my boyfriend's chest and arms... they're just so attractive! He also has only one dimple and I think it's to die for. When he shaves what little stub of hair he has on his face it's also pretty cute!
TEETH. Hands are a close second, but wouldn't be a deal breaker. And I also dig a good back. :)
Butt, Arms, good teeth...and his smile. My SO's smile makes me melt into a little puddle.
He has a goofy ass smile that makes me melt...and his penis - he has a very good looking dick.