Friday, 10 August 2012
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Skanky Stalker
So in October of 2011, I started dating Drew (my boyfriend) and all was good...at first. One of his ex's decided she would give me a heart to heart about "The real him" and give me advice. I told her thanks but that I was happy and if anything happened I could handle it myself. Throughout this whole year, the girl has been stalking me and him!
She constantly harasses me and calls me a fat bitch. She likes to brag about how he has gone back to her to have sex when he and I have had problems. I have never even met this girl and she is giving me hell! I've turned my phone off, blocked her from my Facebook, and she still finds a way to harass me. She even goes to extreme lengths to try to friend me, pretending to be someone else, just to find out information.Drew and I have had our problems this year. Every time I turn around, there is always some new story that he has failed to tell me. I love him, but I can't trust him. He has lied to me several times, straight to my face while looking me in the eyes. When we have broken up or have had arguments, this girl always seems to come back into the picture. He talks to her or goes to see her when we have our petty issues.
When things are finally going fine, this girl pops up and tells me stuff just to piss me off. He made out like he has nothing to do with her anymore and doesn't see her anymore. He pretends that he is disgusted with her, but yet sleeps with her behind my back.
This girl takes pride in fucking my man behind my back and slaps it in my face. I have never done anything to this girl and she honestly makes me want to kill myself.
What do I do? How do I get rid of her? Does my boyfriend still like her or is she just something to fuck because we're having problems?
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I read some of the posts on Lovelyish and I think this can't be for real. WHY? He is playing both of you. He wants to fuck both of you and that's what he is doing. If you want a relationship, you need to find someone else.
I was in that exact situation. There were two things going on: the girl was absolutely crazy, jealous, and enjoyed causing problems for us; the guy loved me, but DID fall back on her (and others, I later found out) when we were fighting.
Neither of those problems are likely to just go away so get out before you get pregnant.
lol. isn't april fool's day in april?
Stay away from him, he sounds untrustworthy. When he's out of your life, she will be too.
If this is even for real, you should drop him like a bad habit and she'll be gone with him. Problem solved. In the end, why would you commit yourself to someone that you don't trust?
Is it possible that she could be lying just to piss you off? If she's going out of her way to harass you, I wouldn't put it past her. If you can't trust him, don't stay in the relationship. But this girl doesn't sound like a trustworthy person, and chances are, she's just saying stuff to see if she can get under your skin.
Ew.
what did she tell you during the heart to heart conversation? he's a cheating liar? so she has sex with him to prove that he's a cheating liar?! that's what happened in "The B in Apt 23" tv show
her roommate doesn't believe her that her bf is a cheater, so she does her roommate a "favor" by sleeping with her roommate's bf to show her what type of person he really is. her roommate was mad at first, but later she said that was the nicest thing anyone has done for her
he's rebounding for as long as both females allow. if you can handle it yourself like you said, then why are you asking here? just sayin'
So wait. This guy has lied to you and slept with this other woman. It seems to me that you have more than a stalker issue here. The guy sounds like a loser. Dump his sorry, pathetic ass. They deserve each other.
Tell me about it. It's almost like I'm reading my life story except I was never in a relationship with the guy. For the week that I hung out with him before he went off into the air force, he was talking to his ex still even though he was hanging out with me. I was fine not being in a relationship with him but for a fling he brought a lot of drama in my life. At first I blamed only the ex for being psycho but it's both of them. He always goes back to his ex whenever he is either with someone else or after he breaks up with someone.
What are you doing still trying to get with this scum? He gets off on two girls fighting over him. He isn't the worth it. She did the same to me. When I first started hanging out with her ex and he added me on facebook, a few days later, I got a friend request from her even though I've never officially met her. I knew who she was because we both went to the same college and I have seen her before, but I didn't know that those two even knew each other until I was at one of his family gatherings and I saw she was there. I asked him who she was and he told me she was his ex.
For three years, even after I stopped talking to the guy she still kept gossiping about me. It was 2010 and all this happened in 2007 and both of them were still talking about it. The way I see it whoever listens to their trash are company that I don't wanna keep any way so it doesn't matter to me what they think.
Simple solution: hang out with people that matter.
You said you can't trust him. Why the hell are you with him, then? If you can't trust someone, there can be no relationship of any kind. It's not just her- it's him, too. It takes two to tango, hon. Drop him and let him have her. They deserve each other. Move on and find someone better.
I think you need to worry more about your cheating "boyfriend" than his stalking ex.
Leave him!
Why would you stay with a guy who's sleeping with another girl behind your back? The problem isn't the girl (well it is too) but it's him! The only difference is she enjoys hurting you as well but your man isn't much better.
They both sound horrible and evidently deserve each other so leave them be and walk away while you still have yourself and some dignity.
SHE SLEPT WITH HIM BEHIND YOUR BACK. you are the dumb one. you let her slap you in the face, with THIS? you don't deserve someone like him... better to leave the 2 psychos together.
You love him, but you can't trust him at the same. He sleeps with her behind your back when you both have issues?
You should dump him and move on. Not worth your time.
yes, the girl is at fault, but your boyfriend is an absolute jerk for giving both of you false hopes.
he's having problems committing to both of you.
think about it, if he constantly tells you how "disgusted" he is with his ex, but keeps going back to her, he could be telling her the exact same story.
leave him, you need to be with someone better before it ruins your faith in humanity.
instead of trying to get rid of her, you need to get rid of him. end of story.
1) Call the police if she's prying into your personal information. Escape my tongue right now, but like court ordered... something. Whatever the paperwork is where you can get people to legally stay away from you because you feel threatened or you can have them arrested.
2) You say he cheats on you, lies to you, and somehow you still think you can form a trusting relationship with him. Pardon me if I look a little skeptical as to why you are A) Still with him and B) Blaming her for problems from being with him.
Bad relationships are simple - he lies, leave. You'll probably just make some excuse for him next time he cheats, right?
God, this can't be for real. Are there really girls dumb enough to not know how to get out of this sort of situation?
Just for the sake of humoring you, I'll lay it out short and sweet. You leave his stupid ass. You've already said he lies to you and you can't trust him, so why are you even still with him? And when he's gone, she'll probably fuck off too. And if she doesn't, go to the police and file harassment charges. Slap her with a restraining order if you have to.
@heart_leigh@xanga - amen to that!
read what you wrote aloud. imagine your friend is telling you this about her boyfriend. would you encourage her to stay with him? no. the end.
girl repeatedly sleeps with your (willing) boyfriend, and you think getting rid of her will solve all your problems? think againnn.