Confession time: I HATE receiving oral sex.
Call me crazy - many people do. But although I've had people go down on me plenty of times, I just can't bring myself to like it.
It's not that I find the idea of the act gross, which I understand is an issue for some women. I just don't like the feeling
. I hate having some guy's wet tongue slithering down there. At first, it's too dry and feels weird, and minutes later, the whole area is wet and slobbery and all I can think of is finding a tissue. Maybe the guys that have gone down on me are just terrible at oral sex.
None of them were very experienced, so it's a definite possibility. But I'm not shy about telling my lovers what I want in bed, and I've asked them to try different things and to try not to spill so much saliva. And yes, there have been moments of oral sex that I've enjoyed, and I've gotten my partners to keep doing that.
Giving oral sex, however, is an entirely different story.
I'm not one of those girls who absolutely loves giving blowjobs by any stretch of the imagination. Blowjobs are tiring. It's hard to breathe, it's repetitive, it doesn't feel good for me mostly since I don't like 69 and our height difference makes it hard for him to finger me during, and above all it hurts my jaw to have my mouth open that long.But I do enjoy it. Partially because it gives him pleasure, and a lot because I like being able to practically control him with my mouth through that pleasure.
Of course it's not control over anything important outside the bedroom. But it makes me feel pretty powerful, and that's hot.
Many women I know like giving blowjobs. But many also, as they say, "give some to get some." Which I totally understand, as it took me a while before I started giving blowjobs.So my question to both women and men is do you like giving oral sex? And does anybody else dislike receiving oral sex?
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