Here's the scoop my fellow lady and male bloggers. I'm having some issues with my relationship of two years. My boyfriend no longer seems interested in me sexually. And let me tell you, in the beginning of the relationship, he was very interested. But a month and a half has gone by and he has not suggested anything to me once. When I try to suggest something he shrugs me off and says that he's not in the mood.
Now ladies, what is the matter with this picture? He's a 23 year old male living with a girl and not interested in sex.
I have tried many different tactics to get his attention. I've bought new clothing, gotten my nails done, did my hair in new ways, bought new undies. I've even went to the extent of shaving EVERYTHING. And I mean everything lad,ies. And still nothing.
He will kiss me, but it's just a peck. When I try to get more out of the kiss, he moves away. He still hugs me and cuddles me on the couch. But anytime I try to make it to more than just cuddling he won't have it.
Now for the first two weeks of him being uninterested I thought, "Oh well, at least I know he loves me for more than just sex." In fact, I already knew this. I've been living with him for about a year now so we've gotten used to how each other works. Maybe he's just gotten too used to me?
This is certainly unlike him.
What do you guys think? Is my boyfriend gay? Do I have something to worry about here? If you even have any advice on how I could spice things up a bit, please let me know! At this point... I'm open to anything.