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My boyfriend wants me to allow him to "swing." He wants to go at it with another lady...while I'm with him. In other words, he would like to avoid the guilt of cheating on me by knowing that "I approve" of it. My point is... if you wanna be with another woman go ahead and be with another woman, if it's what you wanna do, go do it. I will consider it cheating and I will wanna chop your friggin' head off when you tell me you did it, but I will respect you more if you break up with me first than if you keep me hanging on.
Has anyone been in a successful relationship AFTER they granted their S.O. a hall pass? I am extremely threatened by the idea. Thanks for your time!