Tuesday, 26 June 2012
Relationships are all about choices--choices that we made in choosing a partner or making other decisions in every step. Good relationships strengthen your mind and make you think optimistically. Moreover, it also improves your health and other aspects of your life.
To get more in a relationship, you also have to put in more effort. Every relationship is unique as people come together for different reasons. To make your relationship strong, there are things that one should avoid while dating:
- Submitting To Your Partners Every Wish And Command
You cannot be a lord over your partner if you are the breadwinner of the house. In a relationship, if one partner becomes the leadership by consent, the other partner will become a weak partner and will follow his/her command by force and the relationship won’t stay long.
- Going In A Relationship For Financial Wealth
The money love always results in separation. If you think that your partner is rich and will provide you with all the riches of the world, ultimately you will start loving your partner for his/her riches and if he realizes that in any point in time you will end up messing up the relationship with your partner.
- Negligence Towards Commitment
Lack of commitment towards relationship is enough to tell that your partner is unable to give true love. If the partner stays with other things and do not give you enough time then it’s a sign that he/she is not interested in the relationship anymore.
- Ignoring Likes And Dislikes Of Your Partner
To make the relationship work out, one should not ignore the likes and dislikes of his/her partner. Doing things for each other and making the other partner feel special strengthens the relationship. Doing things for each other is the best way to express your feelings for your partner. If you stop expressing feelings to your partner, it ruins your relationship.
- Not Being Supportive To Your Partner’s Dreams
If your partner does not take time out to discuss your future then he is being ignorant. While dating or being in a relationship, it is very important to discuss future plans with one another because it gives a feeling of intimacy.
- Lack Of Communication
All the relationship problems stem from poor communication skills. If you love someone, you have to be expressive about everything. It reduces the communication gap and whenever any sort of conflict arises, it builds up the comfortability level to discuss the issues with each other. So, that is why communication skills are very important.
- Not Prioritizing Your Relationship
It is very unhealthy for a relationship if you start prioritizing other things on it. Do things that you used to do when you initially started dating that person. Compliment and respect each other because it shows that you take interest in each other.
- Conflict And Bad Behavior
Conflict arises whenever one of the partners stops talking to each other. The charm of the relationship dies whenever both the partners stop sharing things with each other. A partner who simply cannot show warmth, care, generosity and positive energy just does not deserve to be loved and be with.
- Lack Of Trust
Trust is an essential part of the relationship. Trust helps to communicate with each other and solve the unresolved issues. A partner should never say things that they cannot take back and should be very sensitive to other's feelings.URL: http://www.womenzmag.com/relationships/dating/what-to-avoid-when-dating/
Readers, do you agree?