Saturday, 23 June 2012
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Does He Want Me?
Okay, I will keep it as short as I can.Met this guy, my dream guy. We have everything in common, even the same complaints. He is everything I want--talented, sweet, cute, fun, and to sum it up...amazing! Here are some things he does where I THINK he likes me more than a friend:
1. He tried to "defend" my honor in a bar fight even though he can't fight for crap... long story on how I know this.
2. He shows up at places even if he only has an hour to see me, seeing as he works odd hours (he's a nurse).
3. He constantly gives me compliments.
4. He invited me to his friend's house where co-workers were as well, and his friend said he (the guy I love) really views me as kind of a "girlfriend figure."
5. He told me he "missed me" a couple of times, but he was buzzed so I'm not sure what the context was. Also, I asked the same night if he was on a date with this chick, and if so, that's why I gave him space. He looked at me funny and said "no, I am on a date with you." But, he didn't ask me--he just shows up at our regular haunt every Friday. So, I just thought you were supposed to ask or be asked to a date?
6. He tells me a lot about his personal life. Would a fuck buddy do that?
7. We only had sex once, but every other time, we make out, along with other stuff, like talking, cuddling, and other good clean fun... stuff.
8. He made me breakfast a few times I slept over. He often tells me he hopes I stay over.
9. He gave me his favorite cup to use, and I said, "why would you let me use this? I could break it seeing it's glass." He said, "I want a treasured person to me to use my treasured cup."
Here's why I am NOT sure if he likes me:
When we are together, we act like a couple happily in love but when we're not together, he never goes out of his way to contact me. Yet when I contact him, he responds 98 percent of the time.
We never went on a official date, but the guy works nearly 60 hours a week.
Readers: What are your thoughts?
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You guys had sex once, made out, and cuddle. Sounds like he likes you. On his own time, he's probably too busy to talk to you. But when you talk to him, he'll respond because he likes you. If you must have some sort of verbal acknowledgement, ask him directly if he likes you or not.
he pretty much hates your guts as shown in #9. he lied and means the opposite. that's the cup that he hates and laced with a voodoo spell. run for your life and never look back.
It's pretty obvious he likes you, if you want to know for sure though ask him. A guy wouldn't pay you that much attention if he didn't like you. Plus you've had sex with him and he wouldn't want you to stay over again if he didn't enjoy having you around. Plus he let you use his mug, if that dosn't scream "I love you" then I don't know what does XD. But seriously he likes you, all you have to do now is ask him if he wants to be in a relationship, and turn that "like" into "love". Hope it all goes well, he sounds like a nice guy :)
If you really want to know just ask him.
He's just not that into you. Ignore his calls.
@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga - @P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga -
dont you think it's a bit out of line to pick on someone looking for advice? And if you were trying to be funny, I didn't see the humor in it...
@metalchic86 - there is no advice to give because the answer is obvious. how many more hints do you need from him? if you're not sure, the only way to know is directly ask him.
It sounds like he likes you, but maybe he's too busy for a relationship or doesn't want anything too serious. Personally, I think contact should be 50/50 - no relationship is successful when one person makes all the effort, and I think that goes for getting to know someone too. Why don't you talk to him? Ask him out! If he says yes, talk to him when you're out and figure out what's going on. There's no point hanging on to him if he's not interested in anything serious - you'll just end up getting hurt. Best of luck! :)
Murses are always awesome. It's obvious he likes you. Just go with it and don't question it too much. He's probably just too busy for a relationship at the moment and doesn't want to put you through his long hours and no time to hang out. If it bugs you that much you could always just ask. If he likes you, he'll be honest.
He likes you.
Lol I was going to say kiss him, but it honestly sounds like you're already in a relationship. Talk to him about it after a few beers, lightly bring it up as a joke, like, "So should I change my facebook status or something?" so he knows it's not like you're pressuring him to do something. Keeps everything light & airy.
As far as the phone goes, don't take it personally! I am such a phone spaz & will often leave my phone in my car or my room for the entire day just because I don't particularly enjoy texting & I can't talk on the phone while I'm working or am out & about. I won't usually text but will respond if texted. The fact he comes to see you in his spare time seems to indicate he probably is the same way.
likes you, but has no game. who wants to date someone who works that much anyway? i did it in grad school and swore i'd never do it again.
@P0RCELA1N_D0LL@xanga -
Sorry, I thought you were "trolling". Honestly, im not sure. He seems hard to read at times. Never been involved with a person who has a busy scheduale either.
He's just having a good time without the effort of committment and having to do anything to keep you. You're just 'tiding him over' until he finds someone he actually wants to be with. Sorry. Stop initiating contact and see if you ever see him again.
Yes you are supposed to be asked on dates. Next time he just 'shows up' and tries to call it a date, set it clear that no, you just showed up, this is definitely not a date.
And start dating other people.
*harsh but true*
If he wanted to be serious, he would find the time. Don't hold your breath.
I think you should back off from contacting him. You can only really know he likes you if he makes the effort. That said, if he's turning up where he knows you'll be, it does seem that he's at least somewhat interested.
If you want to know, ask him. And I agree with those who said you should back off and see if he starts making an effort. If not, you have a pretty clear answer.
He likes you... and I'm going to disagree with a lot of the comments here, and say that if he is a busy guy, and you are the one who takes the time to instigate communication, he may be the type to very much appreciate that, and like you more because of it. I would not characterize this guy as one of the "if he really liked you he'd text you" types. That's shallow communication anyways, and it sounds like you guys are best, face-to-face. Keep arranging those face-to-face times.
If you're having sex with him (even just once is having sex with someone) you should be able to talk to him. The only way you will ever know for sure is to ask.
you guys need to talk about "what you are". Talk to each other, it sounds frustrating if you guys show that you care for eachother but aren't making it official...
As a guy, I would tell you to not say anything. Right now you are intriguing to him. If you push things, you will be just another girl. I would say text him less. If he asks you why, just say you assumed he was working and you didn't want to bother him. If you want to flip the script on him, tell him you were busy and just had a lot going on, and he will start chasing you around. He may even push things with you if he feels like you are fading away.
you have to remember that guys run on a different speed than girls. maybe he just wants to take it slow...plus you said he works 60 hours a week, that means he's tired and maybe not always returning your calls is bc of his work schedule. just take it for what you have now...don't rush it bc if you do, you might lose him.
Let him know how you feel and that if he's not ready, you guys can take it slow.
It does sound like he likes you.