Tuesday, 19 June 2012
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Tips to Make Your First Date an Unforgettable Time
Today, a heart beat is missing, emotions are uncontrollable, and hands are shivering, when someone goes with someone special on a first date. The first date day is a day you can’t forget ever in life. On this special first date, why not go for something unique? Movies, dinner, hang outs at a bar or a casino, etc... are old and tired ideas. Try something different yet appealing that makes your first date memorable and enchanting.Being a girl, you must look at first date ideas to impress your boyfriend and to make your relationship more intimate and strong. Don’t be hasty and nasty. Be easy and calm when thinking about the first date ideas.
First date ideas for women:1. Dress Beautifully
Before going with your boyfriend, read some tips about personal grooming (to impress your boyfriend) and how to indulge him in a never-ending romance. Wear his or your favorite color and put on some bangles or bracelets and a stylish pair of shoes that compliment your overall dress. Don’t carry heavy bags with you; it looks clumsy and gives the impression that you're high maintenance. Be cool, chic and up to the minute.
2. Set the Date Time
It's a dated norm to wait for your boyfriend to call you for a first date. Times have changed and being a woman, it is also a right to offer first. This confidence and reliability brings a sense of responsibility and intimacy to your date, too.
3. Go for a Casual Walk
To be impressive and closer, take your date on a casual walk. As you both meet for the first time, shyness and hesitation during conversation is part of the day. Watching a movie, going for dinner or a party at a club are all boring and outdated ideas. These practices spoil the romance and attention of your boyfriend. So, avoid it and make him closer by inviting a causal walk.
4. Plan A Picnic Date
You can also create your own picnic. Choose an area or spot far from the city where you both can spend your time as you want, and in complete silence. Getting to know each other and closeness require silent locations. Enjoy your own picnic by making sandwiches, coffee and lemonade for your guy and show him that you are an expert cook as well.
5. Invite to Breakfast
Invite your man directly to your home for breakfast, lunch or supper. For a more personal approach, invite him to the kitchen and make a meal together.
6. Plan Some Activities Together
You can also take yoga classes, cooking classes or activities that suit you both. Find a local school or training center and get admission. Along with date mates, being a class fellow is an interesting and fun, loving, thing that will boost your relationship.
7. Visit Your Favorite Places Together
This one is self-explanatory. Sharing your favorite places will spark conversation and make for a fun date.
Got any first date ideas of your own?
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This post seems a little confused as to what stage the relationship is at. Its title suggests a first date, but within it, you refer to the male as "your date," "your man," and "boyfriend." No. No one's my boyfriend at date #1 unless we skipped the "dating" process by being friends first, and at that point, I don't need to strive to impress him with my appearance or cooking skills because he already knows these things about me.
Suffice to say, I am not signing up for a class with someone in lieu of a first date, nor am I inviting someone into my home for one. Those are almost asking for trouble. A walk or picnic isn't a bad idea, nor is finding a location both enjoy/want to go (depending on location), but there's nothing wrong with coffee or dinner - everyone needs to eat, so it's not that big of a hassle to meet someone for it. It's a classic date for a reason.
I actually disagree with #1.. you don't want to dress too far outside of your comfort zone otherwise you will be constantly fidgeting and fussing... which can drive both you and your date nuts. (and some men I know cannot stand the sound of bangles/bracelets)
And honestly, I never worried about impressing my hubby when we first met and started dating. I firmly believe in being myself. If he doesn't accept me for who I am then he is not the one for me.
I also would never do #5 for a first date.. what if they guy ends up being psycho? Get to know him a bit before inviting him to your home.
yeah, i'm with @Edeline_Wrigh@xanga. nobody is important to me on date #1--which is not to say i won't take my date seriously, i just don't anticipate treating her like i've known her for forever.
i'm a big fan of dressing to impress though. in general, i only do coffee or dessert for a first date, so i don't hold it against her if she's wearing jeans and/or flats. once we hit the dinner stage, i find anything less than a dress and heels unacceptable.
go skinny dipping in the river, makeout underneath a waterfall, then wade together along the river while singing the bare necessities song. gather fruits to make a fruit shish kebob to share
get one of those huge banana leaves and take turns fanning each other to keep cool
then invite him back to my treehouse to look at the stars
this date is only for tarzan aka jason momoa though.
not just anybady can be mi boifran. psh, who they think i'm
"boost your relationship" and we're talking about date #1?? lol. i personally think first dates are usually low key unless you've known each other for a while and things are about to boil over. but generally speaking its just a "get to know you" in some nice, comfortable setting.
Tips for men.
1) Be sure to belch and pass gas loudly and with authority. You shouldn't be afraid to show off all of your assets.
2) Don't be afraid to get frisky. Smack that ass if you so desire.
3) Be sure to talk loud enough for her to hear. And the people sitting at other tables in the restaurant. In all likelihood, they want to hear what you have to say. Who wouldn't?4) Proclaim your love for anal sex. Even if you don't like anal sex.
5) Every time you get out of your seat, say "okay, I'm going to stand now". This lets her know how communicative you are; which gives you points in a relationship. Everyone loves a partner that can communicate.
6) Dress casual. Pink and purple plaid and jean-shorts should do the trick.
7) Don't shower for like... 5 straight days prior to the date. Women like your pheromones. There's nothing better than smelling like a pile of dogshit. Europeans are well ahead of Americans in this aspect.
8) Don't pay for anything on the first date. Insist on her paying for everything. This shows that you're willing to stand your ground. She'll be pissed, but we all know that with women, being pissed means being wet.
I could add more, but I think this is adequate.
If a girl ever asked me to go on a picnic for a first date, I'd never talk to her again. I let a girl i dated convince me to go apple picking once, and I wanted to stab myself in the face. Not only that, she expected me to wake up at 9 am on a Sunday. 80 year olds do that.
1) Agreed, but that's true for going out in general.
2) This NEVER happens
3) This I agree with since I personally dislike sitting across a table from a girl I'm out with, where my body language and attention span are all being evaluated.
4) This is more of a thing couples who have been in a relationship for a while do. This would be very awkward for a first date.
5) Might work given the circumstances.
6) Dancing classes
7) How would two going on a first date know their favorite places?
Yes, there is some confusion. If this is a first date as bf/gf, then I can understand that. If it's a first date, then no. Plus, I think guys are the ones who really need tips since they lead and the ladies follow, just like in dancing.
1) is bullshit because my best first date was just recently, we had so much fun because we just got along so well. We went for a walk along the broadwater and I had been moving all day so was just wearing my friends hoody I borrowed and jeans and thongs. I did do my makeup but my hair was a bit of a mess but I felt so comfortable and so me that I had so much fun. We even went on the swings in the playground haha but I guess if that was a first date with someone that didn't consider that fun then I wouldn't have gotten a second date!
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