So I recently caught my boyfriend in the act of looking at some odd pictures. I know anime females, like most cartoon females, are meant to be exaggerated in their "womanly" features, but this whole nudity thing is quite new to me. What's even more new, for lack of better wording, is that my bf is looking at them. I find it disturbing.
I honestly was naive enough to never believe that was the sort of thing people got off on. It was more of a "If I don't see it, it doesn't exist," sort of thing. I just caught him looking at it (well not just looking, if you know what I mean), and I'm put off by it. Even more by the fact that he did it while I was in the house. It wasn't at a time where I would be sleeping either. It seemed he was so turned on by what he saw that he forgot there was a chance I might walk in on him.
I did some research and I'm trying to be understanding about it, but I don't get it. I feel like it's fine for other people, but not within my own household, especially not my BF. I'm trying not to be judgmental, but it really caught me off guard. I don't see the sexuality behind it. I see some sort of sexual fetish that tries to be childish at the same time. I'm seeing it more as a problem, like psychologically; I feel like it could be a deal breaker for me. I mean, dare I say, I'd prefer he'd look at actual humans.
Do any of you look at anime in this form? Do you watch hentai? Would you be put off by your SO looking at these?