Sunday, 27 May 2012
My boyfriend and I have been together just under two years. For the first 18 months of our relationship, everything was perfect. We were madly in love, talked of marriage, and I really felt this was the real deal. Emotionally and physically, we just connected.
We used to have sex at least 3 times a week. But now, all of a sudden, he doesn't seem interested anymore. Not even just with sex--every kiss, every hug, every touch that we have is initiated by me. Now, I know a lot of people will say it's normal for the physical side of the relationship to calm down, but isn't this usually after a couple of months?
It just doesn't seem normal to me that after 18 months of not being able to keep his hands off me, he would suddenly become so distant. I have tried to talk to him about it, but he just acts like I'm making a big deal out of nothing and laughs it off. But I don't feel like it's nothing.
I'm not just being needy--he NEVER so much as touches me anymore. Up until two months or so ago, we would have spontaneous passionate kisses. Now, I'm lucky to get a peck when he leaves for work. He still tells me he loves me, but I just don't feel like his heart is in it anymore.
What do I do, ladies? I need some answers, but he just isn't giving me any.