Saturday, 26 May 2012
This post has been submitted by a Datingish reader.
I met a girl and we have been hanging out pretty regularly over that time. Some intimate times--lots of hugging and kissing. When I met her, she knew I was going away for awhile and it didn't seem to stop us from continuing on. But now it is a week before I leave and it seems like she is pushing away.
I am trying to get closer and spend as much time with her as I can before I leave. I am not sure what is going to happen while I am gone; I'm sure we will still keep in touch, but two months is a long time.
I am afraid she won't be there when I get back. I would think that if she didn't want anything to do with me after I left, she would've ended it already but we are going out tonight and tomorrow. I am so confused!
I don't want it to be over just because I am going away. We have agreed not to try and control something that we have no control over, but I want more! It is breaking me apart inside! And I think it is doing the same to her, she just isn't as vocal as I am about it. I am scared!
Readers: What would you do in this situation? Have you ever been in a similar one?