Thursday, 17 May 2012
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Getting His Number
I've been taking these Spanish lessons for the past four months and there's a guy that I really like. Now, he's not just the regular run of the mill kind of guy, he's got that something. I don't mean that just because I like him. He knows the most random interesting and cool things (like me) and I learned that chivalry is not dead.
We only just started talking a bit last month, after two moths of me staring from afar, and of catching him staring from afar. Now the classes will be coming to an end next week, and I can't let him just slip by.
You know when you really like somebody and you can't think clearly when you're with them? That comes over the both of us, and I think that's the only reason we haven't gone anywhere.
I need some advice on some kind of way to get his number. I know, I know, I could just ask him for it. But It's something I've never had to do before, and I'm sooo nervous to. In general, I've always been lucky and always have guys asking for my number, and never vice versa. I know this guy is interested in me. So please:How do I get his number? Any ways of getting his number without straight up asking for it? Have ye any asking for phone number stories you'd like to share?
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You could always just give him your number. I was out with some friends and this guy I've been kind of interested in was there. I wrote my number down on a piece of paper, folded it up, and gave it to him before he left. He texted me pretty much immediately. I figured that took away from the awkwardly asking and it put the ball in his court to text or call me first. Sometimes guys are just as nervous to ask, too. They just need the extra nudge.
You're in the same class, use a study session as an excuse to get together, maybe over coffee. That might be a good time to exchange numbers and just take it from there. Good luck my young love stucked friend =)
i'd do what @sunflowersforlove@xanga suggested, it's not too in-his-face (some guys don't like that--i know i don't) and yet lets you continue to be kind of a pussy. best of both worlds.
I never asked before. guys usually just give me theirs on their own. idk you get it by gittin'it
The guy may end up not asking for your number if he hasn't already done so. You guys are already talking so I do not see how difficult it can be to just trade numbers. Just take out your phone and say , "hey why don't we trade numbers" or something along those lines.
This one just got used on me a couple days ago and I thought it was pretty cute. This girl pretended to "lose" her phone and asked me to call it so she could "find" it. At first I didn't think anything of it, and I just got her to tell me the number and dialed it. But, after realizing she wasn't interested in using her phone once she found it, I picked up on her slick move. Have fun, he sounds like a lucky guy ;)
Yeah this one time I was like, "Hey, I just met you. And this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe?"
haha i have done this in a lot of ways.. oh can i have your number b/c i enjoy talking to you? or can i have your facebook randomly? it really depends where the place is and how that person at the time
feels.. i know when they are outgoing and when they are just too shy.. so it's safe if you just
ask for a facebook.
is anyone else having a "High School Musical" flashback? you know the scene at the beginning just after the two kids sang together? They swapped phones and did the whole pic and phone number thing. (Im a romantic, i thought it was cute.)
@svrd04@xanga - he he he thats how my best friend met his wife!
@svrd04@xanga - That is super sly and adorable, haha!
say "I'd like to keep in touch" and give him your number. Then if he wants to stay in touch too...he'll call, if not, no harm done.
Be honest and say you enjoy his company and that you'd like to keep in touch after the class ends.
Say you want to keep in touch when classes are done and give him your number. If he doesn't call, no problem, but if he does, then hey, who knows! :)
what are you, 12 years old? just do it.
"excuse me, i seem to have lost my number, do you mind if i use yours for a while?" :)
@svrd04@xanga - i'm guilty of doing this...
@proudsmartypants@xanga - hahaha that made my evening
Maybe he'll ask for it first! I mean you're saying that you catch him when he looks at you.. who knows, maybe he'll beat you to it.
the fact that the class is ending is a great excuse to get his number! when you're talking to him one day tell him how you wanna keep in touch after the class is over & even suggest to hang out or something. once you start talking to him, it won't be so bad, just act confident, even if you're not. i think if you get his number by other means, such as from other people, that might seem a little creepy & weirdish, since he'll probably be wondering why you were too shy to ask for it yourself..
oh, hi. it was the same way how i met my husband, last year. we participated in a 2-week voluntary course. i was an extreme innocence, didnt realize that this guy (my hubby) had been staring at me from afar. the whole of the course (just a small class of 10 - 20 people) knew about it, including the trainers as well. last day of the course, he came to me and asked to talk to me in private. then, tada!! he proposed.. oh, he asked my numbers with the excuse to 'keep in touch' and i innocently gave. maybe u can do it in the other way. some guys are so nervous!! ;)
hey i just met you
and this is crazy
but here's my number
so call me maybe
easy.
@LadyGwenivere@xanga - i know! i thought it was just adorable!