Tuesday, 15 May 2012
I've been dating my boyfriend for six years. We've both been trying to keep this relationship in good standing but it's hard because we have certain things that we can't get over. We broke up a few times due to these things. Then, we couldn't be apart and we come back. But, we have a big issue of trust.... I do trust him up to certain point, he is a good man; but there are bad habits he has that I can't stand.
On the other hand, I have some distrust in him because when he is hanging out with certain friends, he doesn't answer his phone and it takes him time to reply to my messages. He usually tells me it's because he's with his guy friends so he doesn't like replying or answering his girlfriend's calls, which I can't comprehend.
I spoke to him a few times about this subject. I told him that I didn't like that because it's disrespectful to me and I want to know what he is doing and where he is at. But he doesn't like that... he says I am his girlfriend not his mom.
This past weekend, I called him and he didn't answered me. He called me back 10 minutes later, so I asked him what he was doing and he told me that he was riding his bike with a friend from work. It sounded like he was indoors, but I told him to enjoy his ride. About 5 hours later I texted him, he didn't reply until an hour later, and then he texted me that he was full from eating so much; I asked him where he ate and he didn't answer me.
I got so tired of this situation, so I drove to his house. While I was driving, he texted me saying that he was driving to his house. When I got there his car was missing, so I went around the block and spotted his car parked in front of his friend's house. I didn't know his friends, all I knew about them was that when he was with them, he didn't answer his phone for some reason. I also know that his friends live a block away from his house. In the past, he always told me that only males live in that house.
I started calling him, he didn't answer. I waited inside my car for 25 minutes and then he came out. He answered my call. He saw my car, then left. I went to the house and rang the bell only to see a young girl and 3 other people inside. I went to his house and I told him if he wasn't going to be completely honest and trustful to leave me alone.
I haven't talked to him in two days but I am very disappointed and confused. I don't want to live a nightmare like that but I have feelings and questions.
Please tell me what to do?