Yesterday I found myself at Best Buy with my best friend flirting with one of the employees who worked for Direct TV. After talking and exchanging compliments back and forth, we invited him to go out with us that night. Since we were intrigued to do so with him, we decided it would be alright if I texted him saying, "Hope to see you later!"
I really didn't even expect a response back, or even him to want to go at all. But what I DID receive was so left field it threw me for a real loop. Instead of him talking about himself or anything, he went immediately into talking dirty to me.
He basically said how he "wanted to bury himself inside me" as soon as he saw me; how he "wants to slap that ass..," and other crazy messages. He then proceeded to send penis pictures... about three of them. He also said graphic things he wanted to do to me, and maybe I could "invite my friend and it would be a real party," etc.
My friend was trying to convince me that ALL men out there are like this. They will only show their good side and try to be Prince Charming if they actually like you and care for you. She explained to me that if guys could, they would talk to us this way because that's how they like talking--graphically and explicit with no shame.
Needless to say I was kind of... appalled. This guy looked like any other average guy. No one would expect such a dirty person to be hiding inside. And no other guy who I have talked to through texting before in the past has ever said anything so graphically to me like this.
So, I'm wondering if she is right. Behind every guy is there a guy who doesn't want anything but a one night stand and to dirty talk to a girl he just met? I'm so sure that there are still SOME chivalrous guys out there waiting to be found and who would NEVER talk this way to a girl?
However, they have yet to cross my path so my speculation is growing!