Saturday, 05 May 2012
Let's just say that everyone or most of us have been through the long process of healing from a heartbreak; or maybe you're going through it now like I am. Here's my story.
A few months ago, I met this guy. He is tall and handsome, funny and artistic. We hit it off well, and I was in fact very attracted to him. Due to the fact that he is a foreigner in my country, he doesn't have any friends so I was about the only person he could hang out with. We spent a lot of time together, but things got complicated. We decided to date without the official status and I told myself not to get too attached because we both knew he would be returning to his country sooner or later.
But when he said he wanted out, I was heartbroken. We remained friends, but it was hard on me. I see him every day in school/my workplace. I tried so hard to forget about him, to stop liking him; but every time I thought I had move past it, I realized I hadn't. I still wanted so much to spend time with him or to just be around him. I've even "googled" ways to forget a guy/how to get over a heartbreak.Just recently from his Twitter, I found out that he may have had a girlfriend back in his country all along, while we were dating. He might have lied to me but I don't know. I mean it doesn't matter anymore, right? All I want to do is to forget about him and move on with my life as soon as I can.
So readers, how long does it take for you to move past your ex-lovers? And what are the ways that you used to help yourself get through it?