Wednesday, 02 May 2012
I've known this guy named "Lee" since February. We have been chatting on and off and even exchanged numbers last month. He was teaching me Korean through Skype and we were getting to know each other well. The video chat was okay; I mean there was a bad connection and sometimes I couldn't even hear what he was saying, but we ended on a good note and said goodnight.
Days went by and he was literally texting me every day. He would write saying I was trying to ignore him, even when I was busy with school and had papers to write. I did text him back within the same time frame, so I didn't understand. He was starting to get clingy and then wham! He wanted to meet up. I told him I might be busy the weekend he wanted to go out seeing as I had something planned already. The day came and he asked me why I had stood him up when I never even agreed to go anywhere!
He also stated that it was very rude of me since I was his girlfriend. I said to myself, "What is he talking about?" Well, he went on the website we first talked on and told me that I was a cheater since it said on my page I already had a boyfriend. I explained to him I never said I was dating him. I could see he had a clear attraction before, but I kept it platonic and simply wanted to learn a new language. "Lee" told me he was hurt that an American girl could do such a thing.
He said that through Skype, I had agreed to date him when he never even mentioned dating to begin with. The only thing he asked me was if I wanted to meet up. I guess he misused the word meet, meaning he might have meant that he wanted to go on a date with me.
What do you think about this situation? How would you have felt?-GossamerRhyannon