One afternoon I found myself bored at the office, looking through Craigslist mainly for freelance gigs, which led to looking at pets, which led to new apartments, which led to missed connections, which led to the personal ads. (CL is magic.)
Lo and behold, what do I find but an ad looking for local lactating women. This 19 year old kid just wanted some fresh milk from a milf. Before I knew it, I was looking up erotic lactation and couldn't believe all the information found on it.
The idea of this fetish isn't at all shocking and the psychology behind is seems fairly simple. I suppose what surprises me most is my lack of research on it prior to reading this CL ad.
Lactation fuels adult nursing relationships (or ANRs) where the woman breast feeds her SO. Breast milk can be a reward in a BDSM relationship or milking could be an act in a Dom/sub relationship. It also plays a part in another fetish, infantilism, which is the fetishization of baby talk. You can imagine how that one plays out.
Lactating women can even be prostituted. In 2003, a New Zealand brothel was reported to have a lactating worker selling her breast milk to clients.
Welp, the more you know.
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Well, this comes as no surprise. My ex-husband got off at the idea of drinking my milk when I was lactating. I personally was a little grossed out by the idea. That was meant to nurture our daughter...ick!
Ohhhhohhohhh. That's fucking nasty.
Seriously disgusting.
Eh, I'd try it...
Hawt.
LOLS. Craigslist is not as bad as the men who pose as women (widowed fathers) that want milk to feed their babies on Cafe Mom or they'd troll for breastfeeding pictures, ask for tips by asking for a video...with very specific details.
LOL this is hilariously gross
Milk a does the body good! Pass it on.
Seriously, I accidentally tasted my breast milk once. It was very sweet. Yes, I almost died but I didn't. lol
why do people always think human breast milk is gross but they think NOTHING of drinking from a cows udder.
human break milk is at least...human
Well I'm glad I wasn't eating while reading this.
hmmm, I do love milk, and my wife is pregnant...
breasts look good behind some sexy shirts, but in general, breasts are quite disgusting because they are basically just two pouches of fat
then it is filled with milk when lactating and then you're squeezing the fatty pouches for milk and drink it
why do some people find the fat rolls on stomachs to be gross when the boobs are also filled with fat>_< so people like to touch fat underneath skin?!:D
Does the milk vary in size? For example an a cup of milk vs a c cup? What about chocolate?
So drinking human milk is gross, but it's totally okay and natural to drink something that came from a cow's udders?
Whatever tickles your pickle!
@daydreams_nightmares@xanga - um no?????? that isn't even what anyone was saying. it is a fetish and for sexual reasons so therefore it is gross, really gross
and why would you want to do that????? god that is disgusting and almost like a mother and a child having a relationship. well that's how i see it and i think that's how it is. i can't take jokes that relate to these things either. just ew. like how did anyone ever think that??? milk from a mother goes to her baby (duh) so please freaking tell me how that ever turned into something that is sexy??? ok i'm done sorry but oh my god.
It makes perfect sense to me why a man would want to share milk with his wife. I think I would do that with my husband, but I think making it a reward is not good. I definately think infantilizing him is a bad move on a wife's part also; I know I won't infantilize my husband using milk as a reward. Although, I get cooing at him and encouraging him in life, I think being that much of an infant like that movie what's it called the Tim Burton Film about hitting your head and getting a sexual addiction...well, whatever, Awesome Film; nonetheless, that is infantilization that has gone bad. No Sour Milk. Much Love.
I like this one! Giving a part of yourself to feed another and give them a little life? Dig it :)
Women are the cows of people!?
-Reese (Malcolm in the Middle)
i'll be lactating soon ;]
that is a joking hint. for my baby only.
I'm lactating... I should go make some side bucks huh?! lol j/kj/k
It's not even gross or wierd. And you made it sound like it is only attached to OTHER fetishes when it may not be. Just because your bf your husband doesn't make him an infant.
of all the fetishes, this make the most sense~ XD
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@daydreams_nightmares@xanga - lol ! Congrats! You have put this silliness in perspective. Gold star for you! =)
I'm a lactating woman, but it is purely for my daughter. The idea of letting a man feed off my breasts is extremely awkward to me. It should in no way ever be used as a sexual thing. I just find it odd.
@blowingmoney@xanga - Your response left me with some questions. Where does healthy sexual interest end and nasty fetish begin? You've clearly drawn a line at lactating, but men in general find women's, um, upper area sexy- is that also "nasty" or "gross"?
Basically what you are saying that anything deemed sexual that actually serves another function is gross. That means that "any" sexual contact that not "directly" tied to procreation should also fall under the same "gross" category.