Last night I had a dream that I was kissing my friend's husband in my parent's basement. He wanted to have sex with me, but I said no. I woke up this morning confused, but sort of amused. I thought it was a funny dream so I immediately texted another one of my friends and shared a laugh about it. But then I got to wondering: What did it mean?
Adultery: If you are the one doing the "adulterating" this often represents sexual desires that are longing to be expressed. Have you been wanting to try something new? Have you been feeling sexually repressed? This could manifest itself in dreams of you banging your best friend's boyfriend. Dreaming of
foreplay also indicates sexual repression.
Sex with a friend's husband suggests that there is a quality that you admire in him, that you wish that your SO had.
Homosexuality: I often have dreams of having sex with other women even though I am straight. This is said to represent self love. However, if you feel anxiety about the encounter, it is said to mean that you are in conflict with your femininity (or masculinity).
Nakedness: Fear of exposure or of being found out. Also said to be representative of feelings of vulnerability.
Pregnancy: Growth and development of the self. Maybe you are taking a new turn in life. This often manifests itself in dreams of being pregnant.
Kissing: Shows great respect for your (kissing) partner.
How often do you have sex dreams? Do you think they are meaningful or just simply dreams?Sources:
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamthemes/sex.htm
http://www.ivillage.com/dream-decoder-10-most-common-dream-themes/4-b-122045
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My dreams tend to be incoherent abstractions of reality, consisting more of the random juxtapositions of thoughts, feelings, and ideas along with some sensory information mixed in (colors, sounds, textures), and every-so-often I'll have a dream that loosely resembles something of an actual storyline that I participate in (i.e. a "normal" dream).
I'm 23 years old and I've only ever had like... 3 sex dreams in my entire life. None of them very detailed, memorable, nor did they last very long.
Interesting. Yea dreams are awesome. The answer to dreams is just a great fun time finding out.
Adultery is kinda natural I think. Not sharing feels unnatural to me
it's funny you mentioned this. I had the second dream (within a month time span) in which this guy from work and I are close. No sex or kissing, but that sensual closeness that comes with intense feelings/ stares. We just hold hands or embrace in these dreams. Then I wake wondering wtf cuz I don't even like this guy nor do I ever see him (he trained me weeks ago). Plus my relationship doesn't lack any closeness. So hmm I say, hmm. lol.
Sometimes I wake up and my panties and thighs are kinda wet and sticky. I know it's not from before I fell asleep 'cause I usually wipe it off first.
I was checking out this one coworker's broad shoulders and I dreamed about hugging the guy later. who the bunny dreams about hugging
apparently me
he was flirting with me at work the other day, but I ignored him. I was hoping the other guy, who I have a crush on, would flirt with me instead of him though. however, those daydreams have ceased since his new hairstyle
I haven't had a sex dream about my crush, because I usually don't think about sex when I think about him. when I see my crush, I mostly have an urge to hug him lol he isn't even tall but only like an inch taller than me, but I was drawn to him and his lush hair lol it is like how guys might be more drawn to women with large hips and a plump butt or "child-bearing" body. well, to me I think the lush hair indicates a youthful and healthy tarzan man
I don't mean just long hair, but healthy looking hair in a style that I find hot. Taecyeon from the korean group 2pm has the lush hair that I love. and his korean tarzan body
I went off track about hair. I don't have sex dreams often. I wish I had more dreams where I ran my fingers through their sexy hair and hot bods as I gave all the kpop stars cuddly hugs<3 I've had dreams where I took off my clothes but I didn't have sex. I think it was due to the hot weather in my area, so the humidity remains in my thoughts and I feel hot in my dreams, too, not sexual related.
@twilike@xanga - I think one of the three may have been. It's been forever since the last one.
I never have sex dreams
The homosexuality one actually makes a lot of sense... That's usually what I dream about if there's any sex involved, even though I've never had any experience with it and I am completely straight. But I do tend to be a bit self-involved.
Dreams are dreams. That's it.
It could mean a lot of things. Maybe I miss my ex or I'm just los-ing. Haha.
i have twice now dreamed about sex with this particular person. the 2nd time, I got off in my sleep.
I don't really think dreams mean anything. I just think they're dreams and that's that. I mean, yeah they feature people you know, but that's because your brain rearranges and sorts out your thoughts while you're sleeping. People need to stop finding trying to find meaning in every single thing, lol.
Interesting. I do think that some dreams have "typical" meanings, for example a staircase leading down/up or falling. Of course the images are taken from our real life and are things we know, but I am pretty certain that I don't dream I stand in front of a staircase leading down, just because we have one in our house (unless I fell on it the day before or something).
Of course it CAN have a differet meaning too ( for example I dream I go downstairs to grab something to eat because I am hungry), but when we can't find such obvious meanings this dream analysis stuff can give plausible explanations. It is not "magic" after all, I think it is the way the human brain typically links things.
One psychologist on tv once said that dreams are the brain's way of cleaning house but that was some time ago. Maybe research has come up with something else by now.
I've been getting them quite often lately. Been going through a bit of a dry spell though, so that probably explains it...
I dreamed I was a concubine to the emperor of china once lmao. scared the shit out of me after waking up. whatever that mean....*rolls eyes*
sensual dreams mean either you're not getting it or you're not getting it the way you want it. Frustration in other words. And I ought to know, I'm an ugly bastard.
I used to have masturbation dreams which is supposed to be about sexual repression. I also had dreams about having sex with someone very similar in appearance, if not exactly, to myself. I dunno about that one..wasn't disturbing. Most of my sexual dreams now center around my partner or more likely women I have never seen before though I am not in conflict about my sexuality. I know I'm bi.
When I'm naked in my dreams, it's usually a feeling of freedom, since that's what I now associate nudity with. But when I was going through puberty, naked dreams were usually extremely embarrassing, because at that time in my life I was ashamed of my body.
Usually, in my sex dreams, everything is going great, and then I find out there's one little catch that ruins everything: I discover that my partner has no genitals. I realize I don't have an actual body and I'm just a ghost, and therefore can't have sex. I find out that someone I made out with/fooled around with is actually a relative in disguise. Stuff like that. It's rather annoying.
I've had them alot,but I think its because i wouldnt want to have sex and that im gay and a virgin
my dreams mean i'm horny.
once, in a quick moment of consciousnesses, i caught myself touching myself in my sleep... lol i was like "woah, wtf?"I think about sex so much while I'm awake it wouldn't surprise me if I do in my dreams also. I've been doing this dream hypnotic therapy thing for a while now, and I often wonder if I dreamed something wet. Hopefully not because that would be very embarrassing.