Friday, 20 April 2012
It seems to me the biggest roadblock in modern society isn't TV, technology or even popular culture's the degradation of women. Simply put, it is you. Somehow, somewhere, we have gone off path and stopped listening to OURSELVES. In all this modern bru-ha-ha of sexy and single and useless dating advise, the biggest part of the equation is missing... YOU.
You have all the answers inside of you. You know what is right for you. You know who is good to date. Which guy is a jerk and only wants have sex. You know who the players are, who the good guys are, and which one of the two is a good match. You know which one is going to break your heart even before you do the "deed." You know damn well who is going to call you back and which jackass is going to let your call go straight to voice mail because he is hunting new prey, until he is bored, drunk, or too lazy to find someone new. You Know.
Ladies, what we need to do is listen to ourselves. We have to quiet our senses so we can make sense of the world around us. I challenge every woman out there; before you take that sip of wine or buy another needless outfit you can't afford or call your single girlfriend who's been dumped more times than a recyclable bottle ask yourself this question:
Is this man really right for you? Does he challenge you to become a better person? Does he make your spirit soar and bring out the best in you?
And if not... Listen....