I have never been the kind of girl to snoop through her boyfriend's stuff. Now before I begin to write this post from some high place, I have to admit: the urge is there
. I think that a reason I never looked through a guy's Facebook messages and certain text messages is that, for one, I am too scared of what I would find.
I don't mean to say that the men I date are untrustworthy, on the contrary, I am just a very paranoid individual. It is very easy for me to over-analyze certain words and phrases, and I think that in most cases these things are all a misunderstanding. And then I would have been the one with trust issues who invaded someone's privacy...
But what if you have suspicions? I have never had any justifiable suspicions about a men regarding infidelity, but I think if I did I would not hesitate to conduct a little personal investigation. Why? If you are sexually active with someone and suspect cheating your health could be at risk.
Sexually transmitted infections or diseases are no joke and can lead to more complications.
I know that it is hard to differentiate between between justifiable concerns and just typical paranoia. If I were in a relationship and the paranoia didn't pass within a few days I would take a five minute glance at his inbox. Nothing incriminating, then I let it go. I don't think that there is anything wrong with having a quick look to calm your nerves. There is no need to search for it. If you take a peek and don't see anything, there is probably nothing there.Do you think it's okay to snoop through your SO's text messages or emails? Would you look if you suspected cheating?