Tuesday, 21 February 2012
I'm writing this in hopes for some tips to fix my sex life with my boyfriend. It's not something I usually do since we talk everything out with each other, but I think it's time for some outside help.
Our sex life has been nothing less than amazing since we first met, aside from one little problem: I'm the one that always makes the first move! It wasn't like this at first. He used to practically drag me to the bedroom so I know there weren't any issues with attraction. The problem is that we hit a snag in our relationship about 5 months in where we had a huge fight and almost broke up.
After we made up (a month after it happened, it's been 6 months since then) it's like he's afraid to touch me now becuase he thinks it'll somehow make me angry, when in reality the results would be the total opposite. He has no problem kissing me first, holding my hand, etc... but when it comes to sex, it's like he freezes up.
I have talked to him about it a few times and he says that he's trying to build up that confidence again but it's been 6 months! If I never made a move I'm sure we wouldn't have a sex life at all. I know I'm being impatient and borderline pushy but I just miss knowing he wants me just as bad.
I guess what I really want to know is, how do I help him with his confidence?