Friday, 27 January 2012
I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 months now and I just have the gut feeling that something is not adding up. This saturday she is going to a birthday party for a 3-year-old, and yes the party is at a friend's place. At one time, he wanted to date her. I have met the guy and he does have a girlfriend now but it just seems funny.
My girlfriend and I have plans after, and I made it clear that I have nothing going on and just want to lock down a time that we can meet after. The party is from 2-5 and she says she doesn't know how long she is going to stay. It's all kinda' up in the air at this point. I know that an invite was sent out to over 35 people and this might be a big party.
In the past, I never listened to my gut and it was the wrong thing to do. I was in an 8 year marriage and was blindsided when she left me, yet my gut told me things were not all right. Again, I dated a girl for 5 months and she committed suicide. I feel like I could have done more.
My point is I've met most of her family and a bunch of her friends, and 2 weeks ago, I invited her to my brother's birthday party. I just don't see why the invite was not extended to me to join her and if there were over 35 people invited, what's one more going to hurt?
She has been vague about who is going and it just doesn't add up.
Am I over-thinking this or is my gut right on? Do you always trust your gut feelings? Are they usually right?