Monday, 16 January 2012
My ex girlfriend broke up with me after 3 years. She's done this a lot, yet I've been told by her and everyone else that I'm an amazing guy, and never done anything wrong to her. She has 3 kids, and was in the middle of a divorce up until she broke up with me. She broke up with me 10 days before our anniversary, two weeks before Christmas, and 3 weeks before new years. After only two weeks, she'd moved back in with her husband, got back together, and basically erased me from existence.
She's done this twice already, and she came back to me both times because it never worked. She was struggling, and things were getting hard for her to deal with, but always swore to me that she'd never go back to him. They fought constantly, and talked trash about each other everyday. He lied to her a lot, even had her kids lie for him a couple of times, and is a real piece of crap in my book. Everyone has told me how happy she was with me, and what an amazing couple we were, and then out of nowhere, she leaves.
I've talked to her once, she changed her number, and when I've talked to her she's treated me like garbage. Acts like what we had for 3 years meant nothing to her, and she's "wonderful" as she said to me and her kids too. Everyone is telling me that she'll be back because it's all for money. They said for her to be with me for 3 years and try to divorce him twice, that she'll come back again in due time because they'll never change each other.
I know you can't change like that overnight. She's going to single me out thinking that's the root of all her problems. I've been told she's being mean to me because she still does love me, and cares for me, that being mean is a defense mechanism. I just wish she'd come back to me. I'm praying to God everyday that she does. Losing her was like having a huge part of me amputated!
Is there anything I can do?