Is it normal to think about/miss someone when you're happily married? Or am I just a bad wife?
I had always been a faithful girlfriend and wife until 2 years ago when I met this guy, lets call him Happy-Clam, HC for short.
HC and I clicked right away and the attraction was mutual. He was funny, charming, and witty. But since I was still seeing my then boyfriend (now husband), HC and I never dated or anything, so it's difficult to understand why I would miss him or miss something that I never had to begin with.
I don't want to devastate my husband should I talk to him about this. I also cannot tell HC how I feel because it is not right to get him into this again. (Besides, we have deleted each other from our contact/phone list anyway.) Nothing is morally right. So perhaps I just needed to post this as an outlet.
Is this normal, or do I have some issues to sort out?