Guys are not known to be emotional creatures. For some reason, women end up being the crazy ones because we have "too many emotions." It would be so much easier to have a common ground. Men are great to be with and be around, but I still wish that there just a tad bit more emotion or feeling coming from them at certain times.
It seems that men have switches that they can easily turn on and off. I don't know how and wish I was able to do that at certain times as well. It's sort of a cop out. For some reason, as soon as things get hard, they shut down emotionally. It can also be a problem when your significant other doesn't talk to you about certain things and you feel as though you're not communicating like you should. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship but I don't like being the one to always ask questions. It's not only that but I end up finding out things I hadn't known before and it makes me wonder. It's not a good feeling. He tells me that it's not easy to talk because he's never had anyone be there for him before but somehow I don't feel alone in this boat. He's not the first guy to find it hard to talk. I don't understand why guys have this macho persona - it's ok to have feelings and emotions too, sometimes.
So datingish readers, I have a few questions for you .. Do you find it hard to emotionally connect with your significant other? How do you get past it ??