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When my boyfriend and I first started seeing each other, he introduced me to one of his female friends who happened to be a lesbian. This was never an issue and we actually became really close. She was a part of the big group of friends that my boyfriend and I would hang out with, so we would see each other quite often. When my boyfriend and I decided to move in together, that's when the fighting began.
There were a lot of insecurities and built up anger for other reasons, but this female friend was always there for the both of us. Then, after 7 months, we had a really bad argument and decided to take a "break".
While we were broken up for a month, this female friend played messenger between us because she was our mutual friend. At some point, she started to become more of a nag than a friend who wanted to help the situation. She would say uncomfortable things to me like "sit on my lap and cry."
She used to show my boyfriend and me messages that we used to send to her in regards to the other, but she would delete messages here and there and copy and paste things out of context for completely unknown reasons. Eventually, it became so insane that my boyfriend and I finally met up to compare messages and found out what was going on.
She deleted my number, kept bothering my boyfriend, and then ended up confessing that she was actually attracted to me and had feelings for me the whole time. It seems as if she was trying to sabotage my relationship with my boyfriend in order to spend more time with me. She clearly knows that I am not attracted to other girls, so why would she even try to do this? I haven't spoken to her since the incident and it is incredibly awkward now, what should I do?