So, do you remember on my last blog, where we talked about animals and mating calls? I was discussing a woman who asked about what the big hoopla was? Well, a comment reminded me of another thing I told the same woman.
What brought this back were two things: in our last discussion, a man publicly pointed out his attraction's based upon whether he can work with it in bed. Also, near the end of the video questioning male attractions to big butts (still searching that one), she told the men watching that if a man dares to look at her ass, she will take a look at our penises to see how we enjoy it. Naturally, I put two and two together, and wound up asking what I thought was a question as interesting as it is funny. If a man asks for something big or shapely, is he secretly compensating (maybe overcompensating) for or leaving his partner to assume the size of his member?
Surely, most women who aren't quite that endowed wonder about it, too. What's the deal with big breasts? Why do you need big asses to enjoy doggystyle? Does a man like big breasts to fulfill his breastsex fantasy? Why does a woman have to worry about her size like some men do?
As a man, I should not only be laughing, but be a teensy bit uncomfortable thinking this. After all, I admit that although I'm not entirely picky on shape, I get turned on by a shapely ass pretty often. Instead, it has led me to a slight understanding about a male's open attraction to that. (Perhaps, almost even bringing a circle to that BBW discussion we had months ago.) Nowadays in most urban videos you see, the man not only mentions with no shame sexual enticement of his women, but most of the women in the videos have fat asses or something curvy. Do they really like big booty women that much or are they implying that they can handle the woman's butt because they have the equipment and the skills for it?
I have no way to extend this like I usually do, but your thoughts on this?
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I think the reasons for attraction are much deeper than that. I also think a lot of guys don't verbalize what they really like but instead voice their desire for whatever society finds 'acceptable' at the time, because they don't want to be laughed at or thought to be weird. For instance, if a man said he was attracted to fat women he most likely would be labeled a chubby chaser and it might be embarrassing for him to express how he feels because of the peer pressure. If you haven't noticed any sexual preferences that aren't popular tend to be labeled deviant, perverse or fetish. It's not a wonder that "all men" seem to like the same thing. Women seem to get a lot more room to express our desires without being shamed but even we have limits to what society will accept.
@armsraceofsound@xanga - If the ass is in the way, all a woman has to do is raise your booty high to allow him to go in further and directly.
I always end up with my head all the way down, my ass as high as i can get it with my arm reached unter trying to guide him in. And then he slips out. And i get annoyed.
Thus i hate doing it from behind! Unless i'm on top.
@armsraceofsound@xanga - Do you mean "reverse cowgirl"? That could be hot. But I also like Lazy Doggie, which means you just lie down flat and let the bull work on your ass, he might just cum all over your ass which is nice at 6am sometimes eh...are you creeped out if he licks his cum off your ass......
@armsraceofsound@xanga - All of it or just the last part?
not all guys
Hmm, I never thought about it, interesting.
When I first saw the title, I imagined an employer distributing sexual preferences as compensation towards its employees.
small ass, small breasts everything about her small. That's the way I like em.
@testyman666@xanga - Hey. Whatever's cool with you, man.
has it already been said that evolution designed men to be attracted to big asses because big ass=big hips and big hips=good at having kids?
so I think this is much more complex than we think it is. No one answer is correct.
So I'm taking animal behavior and so evolutionarily, yes, big hip (big booty) are associated with better child bearing, so it can be hard wired into a man's brain..but we always have exceptions.
So, for those exceptions, their preference for a smaller woman may be due to their upbringing, what they have been taught is beautiful or sexy, and then later on what their friends and the media deem to be "attractive".
Another thing, I think all women of any natural shape and size are beautiful, but the media tends to discriminate. It used to be that plumper/fuller models were "in", then skinny models became the new "in", and now there is a divide: on one side, the fashion industry calls for beautiful faces and petite frames (although VS has petite frames, beautiful faces, and usually larger breasts), while the rap industry thinks "thick" is in. It's just a perspective. Sometimes I think even the girls who are considered thick would at one point in time have been considered fat, but now they're not. So in that instance, I think its a step up in the way women are classified. But at the same time, a woman shouldn't be deemed less attractive just because her body proportions are smaller.
Sorry, that last part was just a bit of personal commentary lol. So male preference is a result of many things, two of which are obviously genes and environment.
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