Monday, 14 November 2011
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How Do I Flirt With My Guy Friend?
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I'm 16, and bisexual, and I've recently come out to my best friend. He was completely fine with it, and he told me to go after this guy, Nate, in our high school class. Nate is probably gay, why? Well he talks with his hands, makes facial expressions and kind of talks like a gay guy, sings constantly (like me), and best of all- he sometimes comes up behind me and grabs me around my waist, and locks his hands, to surprise me.
He's been taking me home from school the past week, and offers to do it everyday. Also, every summer a select group of kids (who can afford it) go to Europe together for two weeks with a teacher from the high school. Well, both Nate and I are going and he told me the other day that we are rooming together throughout the trip and I was super excited!
Even though I have all of this evidence pointing towards gay (or bi), I'm still not confident enough to make a legit move, is there any way I could flirt with him? Any advice?
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Comments (9)
Not sure if talking with your hands is a precursor to homosexuality. I think it's the affinity for penises that does it. I'll have to check my research
Keep hanging out with him, let it flow naturally. The more time together, the more comfortable you'll be and the whole "Oh what do I need to do to get close/flirt" will disappear, because you are already in fact, close to him.
Try showing him your penis. That's the only way to know for sure if he likes penises.
psh offensive comments :P ... anyway, i think you're doing the right thing just by staying a friend. idk people say about "friend zoned" but i think its one of the best routes to slowly enter into someone's heart. i have been dating my best friend of 8 years, for 3 of those years. lol. maybe keep things a little flirty just to see if he bites. ultimately i think one of you or the other will have to come out with the fact that you're gay and interested, but there's so much fun to be had in taking things slow.
Maybe it's just me, but half the things you listed for why he's homosexual/bisexual... doesn't scream homosexual/bisexual to me.
if you really like it, it happens naturally
...you don't flirt...
You could just ask him. Most guys A) don't have a problem with saying they're straight. B)The ones that will be willing for a relationship also wont mind admitting they're bi-gay if you ask in a non-judgmental tone. c) if he doesn't want to come out yet then you'll be able to tell that too because he'll stammer or look uncomfortable.
I'd just ask.
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Come out to him. If he comes out back, then you'll know. If he doesn't, it's because he's not ready.