similar thing happened between me and my bf. We are now ex's. I think the only thing you can do is to practice swallowing what you were about to say. Just wait and don't over-react. I liked to write things down and then days later look at them again and realize how stupid it all was and how glad I was that I didn't say anything.

Maybe the more horror stories you read where this happened, and it ended up driving the guy further away and giving up on the relationship, the more it will seem real to you. If your boyfriend has never cheated on you before, just drop it! You're making what should be a place of comfort a place of constant agony for him. Yes, eventually he will stop trying to make you believe him because he knows his efforts do no good.

Pretty much what that picture says. You need to trust. How do you trust? You communicate. 

oh my god i have the same exact problems, and my thoughts about it are exactly the same too.  

What do you do?

You gotta realize that this is your problem. It's not just trust, but it's your own insecurity that's making you not trust him. Has he done things to give you reason not to trust him? If so, you shouldn't be with him cause you'll never be satisfied with anything he tells you. You're over analyzing things because you WANT to find something about him to spare your feelings if anything does happen.. and that needs to stop if you really really want to be with him. You're turning a good guy into a bad guy by not trusting someone you should trust more than anyone else in the world aside from your family.. If you love him, you have to accept him for who he is and what he does. If you're not okay with it, you shouldn't be with him. Whether he talks to girls or not, he's with you. If he cheats on you, he cheats on you and that sucks. but you have to remember that still.. not all guys are the same. About the being angry part, I don't knwo about you, but me and my boyfriend's fights got really bad because we always expected the worst out of each other every time we fought.. stop expecting things. Don't let your pride get in the way.. again, it shows that you're too insecure and have too much to lose to let your pride down for the one you love. You'd be surprised how far a little apology can go with guys. Us girls are like, "well, he didn't sound like he meant it." yadda yadda yadda, but girls and guys are different.. and I think people forget that a lot and expect each other to feel the exact same way the other person feels. Understand that he is a guy and he does have a completely different way of processing thoughts and feelings. he can't help it.. just like how us women can't help being bitches sometimes.

Find things that make you feel confident.. Make guy friends yourself!! Be your own person to the point where, if you and your boyfriend broke up, you'd have nothing to lose.. you'll still have your awesome ass life. I feel that most success in relationships come from both people having their own individual lives as well as a life together. Instead of you constantly be being of afraid to lose him, do things that make him afraid to lose you! Like, dress nicely and turn heads or cook for him more often or treat his parents well or.. yunno. Don't flirt with guys to make him jealous, but look DAMN good that he gets a little jealous.. ya know? You gotta keep trying for him. Be so confident that other bitches can't stand a chance with you :)

@Guteman91 - Haha well thank you!! I've actually been a very happy, calm pregnant woman (most days, anyway). The hell will probably come in 2 weeks when I realize I have a newborn to take care of and have NO idea what I'm doing!

And no, no sisters. :( Just me! But I'm flattered. I tend to agree with most of your comments, too. If you hadn't noticed, I've rec'd a couple of them in the past.

what has happened to make you feel insecure of him leaving you, just because you've been grumpy lately? is this a chronic thing that happens when you get upset and lash out at him, so instead of talking it through in details, one of you up and leaves the situation?

if that's the case, whether it's YOU or HIM that tends to remove yourselves from the situation at hand, both of you need to adjust and resolve whatever issues you have at hand TOGETHER.

When I KNOW the deep root of my issue has NOTHING to do with my fiance, I take a minute to stop being so grumpy, bitchy, overanalysing-thinking-crazy, and tell him that I'm sorry. I'm not saying I'm sorry to avoid discussion but to acknowledge that I've been unfair for him to deal with and I'm thankful that he has gave me some flex room without flying off the handle at ME. You guys need to TALK more.