Friday, 04 November 2011
Alright, I need to ask you girls/guys a question on the topic of exclusivity.
I began dating this one guy about a month ago, and every single weekend we go on a date-we've had 5 awesome dates. Seriously, each is straight out of a Rom-Com. We are both incredibly dorky, hysterical people and just go with the flow. Our dates are always a riot, and we always go on adventures. The 1hr, "let's go grab a coffee" always without a doubt turns into a 7-8 hr adventure date that breaks every first date stereotype. Now, on the topic of exclusivity.
He makes me feel entirely at ease, being that we both have very similar personalities (let's just say we've learned to laugh more at ourselves through experience), but at the same time, insanely nervous when I start to think WHAT ARE WE DOING? Sidenote: we are in our early 20's. Shocker? It's been 5 dates in about a month's time and this past date, he finally gave me a goodnight kiss.
We always look forward to seeing each other. Texting has gotten a little weird, and I think it's because we still haven't had the "I like you" conversation and just go with it. It's like those AHEM! *knock knock* "Heeyyy" *nudge (I secretly really like you, don't know what to say) texts. I know the obvious thing is just to bring it up, but HOW?
I don't want to make things more awkward (even though we are dorkily awkward people-in a good way; it exists).