Sunday, 23 October 2011
Since September I have been dating quite a few guys at one time. Here lately I decided what I was doing was very wrong to all that was involved so I decided I needed to pick one. I have narrowed it down from five guys to three amazing guys. I need help deciding who I need to choose.
Guy 1: THE EX
We have been dating off and on since Dec. of 2010. He is good looking, popular, he makes me happy and everything. We have some great memories and of course some not so good memories. He has a great personality and I get along with his family quite well.(Now on to the flaws) My mom absolutely hates him. She refuses to let us be together which makes it tough on us. and lately we have done nothing but argue. Also he has no job, I am the type of girl who likes to pay for her own but it would be nice to know that if I needed help he could be there.
He has also gotten caught sending pictures to another girl...you may say why would you even be talking to this boy and honestly I don't know. I really love him and the way he makes me feel. I get some crazy butterflies over him.
Guy 2: THE NICE GUY
I met this boy about a month ago. As soon as we met we hit it off pretty well. He has big dreams and is definitely going somewhere in life. I love how he is always there for me and just wants me to be happy. He cares a lot for me. He is good with family and friends and and also good looking. And the most important thing about him is his promises. If he promises me something he never breaks it, and I absolutely adore that.
Now on to the flaws. He lives about an hour and a 30 minutes away. I have never been good with long distance relationships but he really wants this to work out and has come to see me many times. Also, he does not have the best background. He grew up with a hard childhood and ended up getting kicked outta school at a low grade level. This scares me for the future because of work and stuff. And if my mom finds out she will definitely not approve.
Guy 3: THE BEST FRIEND
This boy has been in my life since the 6th grade. We have been best friends forever and I honestly love him with all my heart. He makes me laugh, smile, man he does it all. He is funny and good looking also. My mom loves him too. The problem is I don't know if he feels the same way I do. We flirt a little but I don't know if that's just our good friendship. I don't want to risk our friendship. I'd rather love him inside rather than tell him how I feel and him freak out and our friendship be ruined. He also knows I have been sort of a player lately and I think that would put him against dating me.
I really need help. I have asked my friends and family what to do and they always choose the one they want me with so hopefully someone on here can help me out. Please and thank you.