Wednesday, 05 October 2011

  • Camp Romance

    Something I thought marked a "rite of passage" growing up was going to sleepaway camp. Most of my friends had spent a good chunk of their summers going to the same camp for years, and I wanted to know what the "quintessential camp experience" was like.

    I ended up attending an academic summer camp during high school--a camp full of traditions and a place where kids whose parents pressured them to always study at home could roam free (a.k.a. me)! During our first-day introductions, I thought the camp would be a really lame camp experience--we were studying a college course for eight hours a day and had to write papers and run experiments. We had this Honor Code we had to abide by while we were there--no academic cheating, no "fraternizing between sexes," no one should be out in the hallways after 10:30pm.

    However, it was the first time I had been away from my parents for more than two nights in a row, and I definitely wanted to take advantage of no longer being under Big Brother's watch.

    One of my best guy friends went to this camp with me, and as soon as we had our first dinner together in the dining hall, he told me that this would be the most sexually charged experience of my life because I had never been away from home for more than a few days.

    "You're going to hook up with a bunch of people. I just know it," he said during dinner.

    He was half right. I did hook up with one kid whom my sister remembers as "the most boring kid you've ever let me talk to." She was totally right, but I thought he was really hot.

    At the time I wasn't really into the idea of "hooking up" with people--I really just wanted relationships, so I dated one kid from camp for a while. dated him for a while--don't ask me how, I feel like we never talked. That was the extent of my camp romance. When the academic year started, I broke up with him and he became my awful Stage 5 Clinger until the next summer.

    Other girls in my hall however, were sneaking over into the boys dorms almost every night and sneaking away during dances to go hook up in the back of classrooms and in the stairwells. It wasn't the most sexually charged experience of my life at that point, but for my friends and classmates it was certainly a coming-of-age summer as they became intimate with others for the first time in their lives.

    Did you ever have a camp romance? Did it last? Did you keep igniting the flame every summer?

Comments (7)

  • laytexduckie@xanga

    I never went to camp. I did, however, spend time with a group of friends every weekend at someone's house (because the moms would always play mahjong). So, as we entered out teen years, we began to see what it was like to kiss. So, we played Spin the Bottle. We only went as far as Frenching, so no 7-Minutes for us. 

  • jeezshoua@xanga

    I went to my church camps over the summer, and I did have a camp "romance" within that week.  After we all came back home, I dated the guy for a month or so and we went our separated ways.  It was.. interesting and I had a blast.  

  • kor_girl@xanga

    Despite the fact that almost ALL my close girl friends went to camp, I never did. I never went to Church camp. I went to summer schools that were close by and were out of classes by noon. But then, my parents being so super strict and traditional, I was out of the house to go to ONE sleepover (came back like a zombie, did not sleep at all) and that was my last experience sleeping away from home. O_o I didn't really "learn" how to kiss until my first "relationship" in grade 11. >.<

  • HollowTendencies@xanga

    I went to church camp when I was 13. One day, I sat down in the dining hall and forgot to get a fork, I was like, "Dang, I forgot to get a fork." The cutest boy who was sitting across from me to my right jumped up immediately and brought me a fork, and that's when I fell in love. The next few days I tried to find him and only saw him from afar a few times, not close enough to get his attention. I remember his name, and I've even looked him up on Facebook, but I can't find him anywhere. :/

  • The_Aftershock_3650@xanga

    Band Camp is like that for a lot of people where I was from.

    I had a new crush every year but it never really worked out lol

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