Sunday, 18 September 2011
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What Do You Miss Most?
A fairly simple question. What do you miss the most about the last relationship you were in? Or if you are currently in one, what is your favorite thing about your current relationship? If you have never been in one, what is one thing you want out of your first relationship?
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I couldn't possibly name just one thing. Let's see. My significant other has such a great sense of humor, always making me laugh. He also listens to my problems no matter how insignificant it may be and he offers some pretty good advice. I love how he's very understanding. Since my mom's been diagnosed with cancer, he's been there for me; very supportive. I love that about him. He means everything to me. I consider myself blessed to have such an amazing man in my life.
I don't miss anything from my last relationship.
But in general I miss all the nice stuff like hugging, kissing, snuggling, hand holding. I think I take care of my own emotions well but I miss the physical stuff most. :(
he makes me feel like the most important person in the entire world to him. when he expresses his love for me, I can see it in his eyes and feel his sincerity so much that I feel like crying because I feel so loved whereas some past guys casually told me they loved me with an empty tone of voice and I wasn't feeling it, so I don't remember telling the guys that I loved them back at the very moment. we effortlessly make one another smile
I don't miss past guys. we broke up for a reason and I mostly have disappointed memories of them.
I miss everything... Her touch... her kisses... at night, she'd hold me in her arms and kiss me on the forehead.. her smile.. laugh.. the way she looked into my eyes... telling her how much I love her... Everything :(
My last 'relationship' was with a kind of sullen, mysterious guy who--I swear--was too cool for happiness. XD Apathetic contentment was about as high as it got.
But sometimes I would accidentally say or do something that squeeze a genuine laugh out of him. It was so soft, compared to his harsh/cynical laugh, and he'd look at me like I'd just changed his world. Then he'd ruffle my hair, or just put a hand on top of my head and pull me against his chest.
Or while taking care of him during one his drunken nights, he'd emphasize over and over that I was special. This coming from a guy whose number of lays is over thirty. XD But he'd emphasize this until he passed out. Bit by bit, you start to believe it. XD
I miss the mess, really, however bad that may be.
i miss traveling the most, especially with someone else. my ex and i used to travel all the time when we would get together. we just loved to explore anything and it was so much fun. the car rides were fun too. we'd just take day trips to weekend trips but it was always relaxing and we'd drive each other completely crazy but then later we'd forgive each other for acting obnoxiously towards each other. we also had these moments where we'd just look at each other or say something to each other but only we knew what was going on and we'd laugh. those quirks makes me miss that relationship bc we didn't need to say too much bc we'd already knew what was said.
i hella miss, mmmm, them just being there bugging me. just running up on me everytime they had something to say, wanted to do, or just yeah. i miss that, or how they just want3ed me to be with them all the time. that ish was totally awesome
I miss the company - having someone to hug, someone that cares about you everyday and always thinking of you. I miss that "good feeling" you get inside that makes you happy. But right now, I can do without that stuff. You learn nothing when life is all happy and dandy. It's only through the hard times that people grow and mature the most.
just his arms around me whenever I'm feeling down.
Mostly everything. The good, the semi-bad, but not the ugly.
There are so many things that I absoluely adore about my current relationship.
I love knowing that no matter what kind of day I had, or what issues we may have fought about, he will still be at home with me at the end of the day. I love knowing that we have that kind of relationship that we can work through absolutely anything without threatning to break up every time we have hit a rough spot.
I love the fact that we are creating a new life together, by living together, by sharing our lives and by having our puppy. Nothing could compare to the feeling that this relationship gives me.
I wish everyone could have the same experience in their relationships.
Thinking I was in love.
She never admitted when she was was wrong, she wasn't as good in bed as she thought she was, and she was a selfish, conniving bitch.
I miss
HIM.
I miss his bed and his Goosebumps comforter that was never big enough for the both of us, so one of us would always steal it lol. I miss us joking. I miss looking at him and thinking, "I could stay like this forever." I miss when we would cuddle and he would put his head on my chest and I would run my fingers through his hair. I even miss his obnoxiousness drunkenness.
I miss the hugging and kissing and sex. everything else I don't miss.
I don't miss anything about my ex.
The only thing I guess you could say I miss is the closeness: hugging, cuddling, kissing.
Not a fan of this post. I feel like asking people this question, especially those finally getting over it, is just bringing up feelings best forgotten.
The best thing about my current relationship is who its with. ♥
The thing I love most about my boyfriend is the way he holds me when I'm upset. It's like a magic hug or something, because I feel so much better and safer than I did before. It's coming up on 4 years now, and I can't possibly imagine my life without him in it.
xX Ame ~*~ Hana Xx
I miss the familiarity. Moving on has been scary (and exciting). Familiarity is comforting and easy. I wouldn't go back though. My current SO is the best man I know.
favorite thing about my current relationship? I am totally comfortable. seriously, there is no pressure to act a certain way, talk a certain way, be a certain way. This was something I thought I had with other relationships, but I never really realized what truly being comfortable with your significant other is until this relationship. :)
I miss truly being connected to someone else. It's hard for me to connect to people, and I feel like everyone bores me, so i miss having someone so close to me