Thursday, 15 September 2011
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Feelings & Expiration Dates
Some people say that not all things have an expiration date.
Well, what about feelings?
Say you liked someone, and they liked you back, but there was a condition where both parties first confessed their feelings. There's to be no proposal of a date or a hang-out alone until after 500 days of waiting. Why? Well, let's say it's between an older girl and a younger boy and her parents don't approve of a relationship until the boy turns 18. Both parties agreed with a promise.
Over time, the boy started losing his patience and egged the girl to persuade her parents to have them try something out. She refused because she was determined not to let her family down and keep her promise. The boy got mad and they lost touch the following months.
It's been 304 days down since I last had a proper talk with him and sometimes I wonder if our actual friendship ended the day we made that promise to wait. I'm not expecting anything special to happen when this is all over...afterall, people also say that even the strongest feelings fade over time, right?
There's one thing holding me back though.
I made a promise and I would hate to break it. This is a 2-way street, and I doubt I'll get any real closure until the deadline arrives.
Sure, the wait will have expired in 195 days, but what if the feelings expire before it?
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....this is so weird.
freakin weird as fuck bro.
if you love someone, why wait?
lol seriously? haha. but i get what u mean about things being said-- and than you try to figure out if its legit anymore or where you really stand its all so confusing
Well, if you guys lost touch then, then would it really be worth it?
If he cared enough about you to try and convince you to tell your parents, he would care enough to wait. He may come back, though :)
I'm assuming you're 21 by your profile, and he is still 17 turning 18. IMO, I think both of you are in different phase of your life especially the maturity level. Why don't you find and date guys your own age? Besides, if you two have already lost in touch, I don't think this "promise" will be kept.
then that just means it wasn't meant to be.
My boyfriend and his ex waited two years before they could start dating.
He wasn't allowed to date until he was 18 (which would be a year later). Then when he turned 16, the ex-girlfriend's parents said she couldn't date til she was 18. Being a year younger they had to wait another year.
Of course they only dated less than a month.
My feelings expire. I feel like if I really liked them, then the feelings would last. If they didn't last then it wasn't meant to be.
If it expires, then that's the test and he failed it. Find a better guy!!
to avoid possible jailtime or other charges if anything sexual were to occur, I'd wait til he is 18. you waited 304 days, so continue to persevere and wait til he is legal.
prime example of humans being overly complicated.
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All I know is that true love never expires.
I don't get the 500 days rule. issit just me or...?
My ex and I were supposed to wait 2 years because of some parental issues. She really believed in her heart that I was the one. I was determined to wait. But we couldn't wait. We waited about 5-6 months. No phone calls, no emails, no texts, no IM's, and this was still myspace, and we didn't contact each other on their either. After 4 months, we started seeing each other in secret. No one was supposed to know we were a couple. Eventually her parents got over things and it was fine if she dated. So we got together about 7 months after we made our promises. I guess in a sense that worked out. We dated for almost 4 years. If you think it's meant to be, then you can wait. But he sounds young and a bit immature. TBH, you should just say the deal is off and move on. Don't wait around for something that might not be worth it.
I do believe feelings expire. In fact their expiry dates may be far earlier than you think/what your mind tells you, like, you keep repeating inward that you still love a person, but actually the feeling - the flame - has been gone long before you were aware. You just want to be convinced.
Even the strongest feelings fade. Yea, or if they don't fade they might manifest differently over time. Not necessarily "denature", but only settle into something else.
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