Thursday, 15 September 2011
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Varying Degrees of the "Hall Pass"
Today I was watching "The Doctors" and they were talking about varying degrees of a "Hall Pass" in a relationship. They discussed 6 degrees of the hall pass.
1. Would you let your partner have a girls/guys night out?
I don't think this is really a "hall pass." I want my partner to have friendships outside of our relationship. We can't spend every moment together. I would let my partner have a guys night out. I think they need to have space. I wouldn't let my partner stop me from going out with my friends. Whatever they do I would like to trust that they are being good and not crossing any boundaries.
2. Would you let your partner go to Vegas alone?
I don't think this is giving a "hall pass" either. Couples can't always get off of work at the same time so sometimes their vacation comes at a different time than yours does. My partner can go to Vegas without me. We won't always be available to travel together. I would trust them to be good and not do anything stupid while they were there.
3. Would you let your partner have a drunken kiss with someone else?
No. I don't want a partner who goes out and gets drunk. They shouldn't be putting themselves in positions where something like that could happen.
4. Would you have a threesome?
No I wouldn't have a threesome. I don't want to share my partner.
5. Would you let your partner have sex with someone else?
Heck no! I would only practice monogamy. Once we are exclusive they shouldn't be sleeping with anyone else.
6. Would you have an open relationship?
No I wouldn't. I only believe in monogamy. I don't want to share my partner with someone else.
Would you let your partner have a "Hall Pass?" What degrees of the "Hall Pass" are you comfortable with?
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im ok with the first two, especially since i live in vegas. lol. the rest... no.... if they dont want me doing those things, why would i let him? and threesome with another guy, sure. lol. =D bahahaha only way i would even consider one with a woman, is if i got to do one where it was he and another guy. fairs fiar.
Depends on exactly how you're defining a night out. I wouldn't mind my husband going out with friends. But depending who the friends are I might be a little wary of it. I probably wouldn't be comfortable with him going out to hang with girls. But as I said depending on the person. 2 Um, I probably wouldn't like him to go alone on long vacations at all. Regardless location. I don't think we're at a point in our marriage where we can do that. I say that because I've seen some couples that take separate vacations. Well as far as I know and trust my husband isn't much into drinking. In fact I don't think since I've know him he's ever drank. 3 Did the person kiss him? And did he kiss back? If the person just kissed him and he didn't kiss back it wouldn't bother me. As long as he did push the person away as well. 4 No, I really don't think I'd be comfortable enough to have a threesome. 5 No. Absolutely not. 6 Not unless we were just casually dating. Honestly I don't think I'm that comfortable with the idea of my spouse having a hall pass.
1. Would you let your partner have a girls/guys night out?
Why would my fiance need to have a hall pass to have a guys night out? He had friends before I came into his life, his friends have significant others that can have their own nights out with their friends, so why would he need a "pass" to hang out with his friends? Granted, I'd rather that he doesn't get so wasted that I'd have to pick him up, but if that's what he ends up doing with his two of his best friends, I don't see a problem.
2. Would you let your partner go to Vegas alone?
He used to go to Vegas for Poker Tournaments BEFORE he was with me. He hasn't been to Vegas by himself since we became an item. Now we try to go together once a year, but it seems like his best man and my fiance are going to a DOUBLE STAG in Vegas, so I guess it'll be fine. I trust him to behave himself, they don't end up at a strip club or a club in general (due to unwanted fees adding up the bill), and I'm sure if he can reverse the situation of ME doing things he'd be doing, he'd watch himself. I can trust him so yes, I can trust that he can go to Vegas and come back in one piece without me.
3. Would you let your partner have a drunken kiss with someone else?
No. If he doesn't want me to even flirt with a random bartender, then he better not be kiss anyone while he's drunk. What are his friends doing, letting my fiance "accidentally" kiss someone? If he's going to be drunk, he better be SO drunk, he can't function his lips, let alone "fall" on someone's face. haha
4. Would you have a threesome?
I don't share. We all read enough articles in megazines or sitcoms hash this topic of "Nono" behavior. We both agreed that in jest, it's amusing, but to actually DO IT, it's insulting for ourselves. WE all know what will happen anyway....and nothing GOOD for us.
5. Would you let your partner have sex with someone else?
NO. I don't SHARE and neither does HE.
6. Would you have an open relationship?
I might as well break up with him and be with someone altogether than to have an open relationship with my fiance. It doesn't work for me. I don't even like sharing pens with other people, esp. if it's my favorite pen.
I think #2 needs to be clarified. If they're going to Vegas to watch Cirque Solei shows and gamble, that's fine. If they're going to Vegas and the itinerary includes strip clubs... umm........
I have no problems with my boyfriend having his own friends, his own time with them, and going on his own trips. He's a free soul and the second I get to feeling like he's "mine" I need to step back and take a look at what I'm doing.
He doesn't drink so "drunken" kisses would never be a problem. If one occurred, I would feel betrayed. I personally would never be comfortable having a threesome or open relationship. I enjoy being with him and him alone, but we both feel that way.
1. Would you let your partner have a girls/guys night out?
Of course. I would be more worried if my guy didn't want a guys night out. We can't be each other's everything. I want girls nights out, he deserves the same.
2. Would you let your partner go to Vegas alone?
It depends. Vacation with friends to gamble and have fun, etc? Sure. If there's a bunch of nudity involved and such, I'm not sure how I'd feel about it. Mostly, I think I'd be jealous because I'd want to see too. ;)
3. Would you let your partner have a drunken kiss with someone else?
Um. I could forgive it if that's all it was. I would hope if I made a mistake like that, he would forgive me as well. I wouldn't like the fact that he put himself in that position but I won't condemn him for it.
4. Would you have a threesome?
I would be all for having a 3some with another girl, but it would have to be someone we aren't emotionally attached to and someone we're both comfortable with.
5. Would you let your partner have sex with someone else?
Only in a 3some that we're both involved in.
6. Would you have an open relationship?
Ah, no. That might sound weird since I just said I'd like a 3some but there's a difference between him having 2 girlfriends and me having one of each or two boyfriends. I don't want him emotionally attached to anyone other than me. I don't want to be emotionally attached to anyone other than him. Can we have a 3some once or twice to spice up our sex life if we're both comfortable with it? Oh yes. :D
Number one and two are perfectly fine. I'm not down with a threesome and I consider kissing or having sex to be cheating. I'd definitely not be okay with an open-relationship.
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