i've had a bf like that, and it sucks. i felt like a door mat, and it's exactly what i was. you can't ask for appreciation... so we broke up. he was a piece of shit and i'm glad we're done with it. i would advise to dump him. sticking around hoping he would change... he won't. just move on. you'll find someone that appreciates you :)

Sometimes I feel like this in my current relationship. My boyfriend is bipolar type II, so a lot of the time he just absolutely needs his alone time. I totally understand and respect his space, I give him all the space he needs, but sometimes it gets under my skin because his need for space gradually keeps increasing. There are times that it feels like we might as well not even be dating, but then it goes back to spending time together every couple days. Somehow we always manage to make it work, communication is the most important factor in that. My advice is to talk to him about it. You really need to know where this is coming from and explain to him that it doesn't even feel like you're in a relationship. If things don't change, you should move on with your life. You shouldn't allow yourself to continue to feel like this everyday.

a long time ago, when I hung out with my boyfriend, I felt alone still! I talked about it with him and it's worked out fine now :) he's aware now and gives me more attention.

when I think about it now, I feel like he has ADHD and didn't exactly know what was going on or what the problem was.

so go have a talk! hopefully it works out in your favor.

story. of. my. life. :(

Maybe in his own way he thinks he's doing something to repay you, obviously you don't feel that way so you two should talk about it. If you two aren't on the same page after that then walk and see if he fights for you because honestly, you've invested enough into your relationship and if what you're putting in isn't getting returned, stop investing. 

Talk to him. His attitude will become pretty clear in the way he reacts. When he says nothing is wrong, or makes false promises which last a week. Dump him. Or you will get hurt. I promise you that. People who are each others "firsts" rarely stay together nowadays. The way he is acting is what happens after a year or so... the sex becomes routine, they become less and less interested (and thus less and less interesting), and eventually he will hurt you. Try and talk to him, but do not let your feelings get in the way of doing what is best for you. No doubt, if you break up with him, he will immediately want you back. Don't go back. You deserve the best.

Well, I hate to say it, but he might you might be on the brink of a break up. Have you talked to him about why he's acting like this?