Tuesday, 09 August 2011
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He Cheated on Me with My Sister
I'm sure I'm not the only person this has happened to. My sister and I were never really close growing up. I honestly could not stand her, but I would never dream of hooking up with a guy she was with or any man she was ever with. This all happened when I was about 17. I'm now 21.
I never got over it because I have two kids with this so-called man. I was 16 when we first got together. He was my first EVERYTHING. We had plans to get married!
I thought i really loved him and vice versa. I didn't find out about this 'till I was six months pregnant with my second child to him, and get this, he's the one that told me; my sister wouldn't admit to anything. He told me he had something that was eating him up inside and how he wants to get this off his chest so we can be happy and raise our kids together, then get married.
He said he wouldn't feel right to start a marriage off with a lie. That's when he told me he slept with my sister. Needless to say we're not together anymore and he doesn't do much for my kids. He also had 2 more kids to someone else (not my sister). He still calls me all the time to tell me how much he loves me and wants me back, but he has a girl and I say girl not woman because she acts like a child thinking I'm the one who wants him back.
She even went as far as having him get DNA tests for both of my kids. The joke was on her when he had to pay over $200 for the DNA testing because of course, they where BOTH his kids.
Have you ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend cheat on you with a family member?
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- From: anonymous_because@xanga
- Name: anonymous_because
- About Me: Im 21 with 2 wonderful kids who I wouldn't trade for The world I may be 21 but I feel like 50 I have had so much happen in my short time of life even I cant believe it happened to me .im sure ill write about some of the things any way im a part time student I have my own place A nice car my kids have every thing they need and more Some times my work prevents me from spending alot of time With my kids but I kno right now I don't have much of A say in the matter because besides my family I don't get help the state won't help me because they say I make to much but in 2 years when im out of school every thing will be so much better gotta go though hell to get to haven right
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Comments (26)
You shouldn't have kids that young.
Ouch. That sucks.
Oh I'm sorry about this :(
Yeah, I have a middle sister who takes my sister's and my boyfriends. I don't have anything to do with her.
That is really weird that your sister would do that. And trashy. Get your children away from those people.
What a slut... Id probably end up beating the crap out of her :/ But then again, you have kids, cant be acting that way.. But geeze.... Thats messed up that your sister would do that especially since you have kids with that guy.. He will be in your life forever even though he's trash...
I can see friends, but a sister? Eeeew! That's really sad! It's usually family that would hurt you the most. I would let her have him, not worth your time and you deserve better. I would stay away from her too. I had guys who liked me and switched over to my sister and vise versa. She denied them and so did I. I lost respect for those cowards.
Yeh thats a big no no! I wouldve def. left him. But I would just cut them out of your life, and if your childs father really loved you as much as he says, then he wouldve at least stepped up & been there for his kids after you guys split. So I would NEVER take him back..
I have never even dated any of my sister's past boyfriends and I definitely wouldn't be caught dead with the man she married, but that's beside the point. That's awful what happened to you, the fact that your sister betrayed you for this poor excuse of a man you had as a boyfriend. I cannot imagine all the pain you've endured knowing that he cheated on you with your sister. Had it been any other girl, I'm sure it would be less painful. I'm very glad for you to have been able to move on. If I were you, I'd take him to court and clean him out in child support. He's clearly not been taking care of business in any aspect, especially since he is not taking care of his children. His new girlfriend seems not to remember that it's him calling you not the other way around.
Sounds like a Maury episode
2 kids by 21???
My husband hasn't cheated on me like literal cheat but they have stared at each other with I wanna fuck you eyes . This is after I had his kid .. like our kid was only a month old when this happened . I know how I felt when I saw that so I couldn't imagine how you feel . That is awful :( I'm sorry that happened to you ! Thats one of the most fucked up things EVER !
Gosh, I can't believe a sister can do that to her very own sister. It's awful. I lack understanding because I have a younger brother. I'd want nothing to do with her if that was the situation.
well there was this one guy that i slept with that i didn't really care about in that way, we were just friends. i didn't tell anyone because i didn't think it was neccessary. i eventually told her after she persued him at a party. she slept with him too. it grosses me out :/
You made some mistakes in your naive teen life that will now affect your innocent two children. Your issues with your previous man and your sister are irrelevant to what's important.
Gosh, :(
No. That sucks!
:/ That sucks
I'd never be remotely interest in a guy my sister was/is interested in or vice versa. It'd just be totally disgusting.
&&I'd be somewhat piss and weirded out if my sister started/liked a guy that is/tried to woo me or if I had/have an interest in them. 0 _ e
Sounds selfish and bratty but eh that's how I feel.
You must have been pretty naive to have 2 children at 21 (no offense) but if he's the type of guy that would cheat on you with your own sister, you should have seen that before you started dating him. I know it's not completely your fault, but I think you could have used some judgement on this one. I'm sorry that he cheated on you with your sister, that really sucks.
Good for you for being strong, independent, and not taking him back. Your sister isn't half the woman you are. No wonder he wants you back.
@xXDC_luyouXx - What mistakes are you referring to? And since you're accusing her of mistakes, please enlighten us as to how the issues with her "previous man" are irrelevant? This post didn't mention much about her teenage life and the part that did definitely pertained to her "previous man"...to which she had said children with.
Your sister, your ex and your ex's new girl need to back off. They all fucked up and left you to be the responsible one and all of them are negative. Get child support and cut them off.
@x_papergirl@xanga how is she supposed to have seen him cheating with her sister exactly? She has two little ones and has nothing to do with her sister and some men are great actors.
@xXDC_luyouXx - What mistakes?
@stanlee255@xanga - You shouldnt be so judgemental. I know plenty of parents that wait to have children until they are older and guess what, they are awful. My mother was 17 when she had me, 19 with my sister, 22 with my brother. Guess what....ALL of us are in school with a 3.8 or higher. NONE of us have been in trouble with the law. ALL of us are good respectful people who dont feel entitled to things. ALL of us work and are doing something great with our lives. I dont see how being young makes you a bad parent or making a mistake by becoming a parent young. She probably had determination and a good support system.
@XoAsianBabioX@xanga - that's pretty common around where I live.