Wednesday, 03 August 2011
Have you ever hung out with someone you like, but you can't help but notice that you're hanging out with him/her only when you initiate the plans?
He still hangs out with me whenever I ask him to hang out and doesn't break the plans whenever I ask him to hang out which is good, but should I wait for him to see if he'd ask me for a change? I sometimes try to justify this thinking that maybe he doesn't know when I'm busy or free and he lets me call the shots all the time since he always does follow through with me whenever I ask him to hang out. He has a more lenient schedule than me. One of my friends, Jack, told me that he has this best friend, Pete, who will only hang out with someone if the person contacts Pete first.
It's nothing personal on Jack, Pete just does that to everyone, but Jack said it pisses him off sometimes.
Do you think this should be a concern if only one person is ever doing the initiating? He still hangs out with me whenever I ask which is why I'm debating on whether or not to let this bother me.