Wednesday, 27 July 2011
Seems like a weird question to ask, right? No. Overall, I’ve had some pretty good sex, but only ONCE in my life have I had GREAT, AMAZING, ORGASMIC sex, and I am only referring to intercourse. I don’t mean to be crude, but I know this is an issue for many girls out there.
Now I also know many girls who haven’t had any great sex at all, but once you’ve had great, it’s kind of hard to settle for good again. That’s what it feels like at least, it feels like settling. I always found it to be so unfair that girls always have to find that one perfect spot just so it can be mind blowing while the guy has it great and easy every time.
It frustrates me and worries me that I’ve gotten lucky just once.
I’ve still been doing it with the same guy who it was great with the last time, but I haven’t reached that same climax again. It’s a little aggravating to feel so close and yet so far. I feel like I’ve reached this dead end.
I like having sex. For one thing, it’s healthy, and for another its fun and it’s even better when you love the person you’re having it with. My situation doesn’t suck at the moment, but I just want to improve it. I’m just curious to know how other people have dealt with this problem in the past and if they’ve found solutions that worked?
I almost feel like I jinxed it too because after the one and only great time, I told some of my really close girlfriends, and now all the times after have just been mediocre. I talked to a girl with a similar situation and she told me that she was able to repeat the great sex again, but that sometimes it was great and sometimes it was just okay.
On the website, netdoctor, they said that every woman should be capable of having an orgasm, but that the majority of women will not have that orgasm through intercourse alone. According to them, most women need to be stimulated with oral sex or fingering to have an orgasm, but in my case, it was only through intercourse.
Did you ever have an issue with having an orgasm again? What did you do to repeat it again?
Well, until it happens again, I’ll be hoping it comes soon…(Pun intended) ;)