Monday, 25 July 2011
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My Boyfriend Made Up An Entire Vacation So He Wouldn’t Have To Hang Out With Me: Part 2
Note for the readers who didn't get to read the "Part 1" blog post: My boyfriend made up an entire vacation so that he didn't have to hang out with me. No, just kidding. Well, unfortunately I'm not kidding about that happening, that actually a sad fact of my life.
I was joking about the amount of information I was giving you. Check it out if you can, but the post was basically about my dirtbag of a boyfriend didn't have the guts to dump me to hang out with his little boy friends, so he pretended to go to Florida for a weekend wedding.
He then proceeded stand in the way of my potential future happiness when his best friend, Chris, asked for his permission to ask me out, himself. He then repeatedly lied to me and had his family lie, and tried to tear apart my friendship with Chris by calling him a crazy liar (pot calling the kettle black, I know).
Anyway, back to Part 2 of this disgusting tale...
I texted Joey immediately after Chris told me the other version of the Florida story, telling him that we needed to have a serious talk when he got "home" (and, yes, I put it in quotation marks).
When Joey got "back from Florida," he bought me a red rose and put on the greatest performance of his life.
"Babe, how can you believe him over me? Can't you see that he's trying to tear us apart because he's jealous of what we have? Someone who lies like that is literally crazy – like mental institution crazy," he said to me, with puppydog eyes and that aforementioned smile.
I still wasn't buying it. "Jen, ask my mom if you don't believe me."
"Okay," I said, jumping up, and seeing the fear of God in his eyes. "That's the best thing you've said to me all day."
"Janine, did you go to a wedding in Florida this past weekend?" I asked his mother, as calmly as I could manage, with Joey standing behind me.
"Yes, of course we did. It was lovely," she answered, without missing a beat.
"Oh," I said, feeling absolutely ridiculous and psychotic.
"Okay, thanks," I said, and sat back down in shame.
"Okay, kids, have fun," she said cheerily, and walked out of the room.
"Do you want to see the plane ticket an the wedding favor, too? Because I have both of them in my parents' room and I will go get them for you right now. Whatever it takes for you to believe me, baby."
"No, of course not," I said, shamefully. My face was burning red with embarrassment.
Side Note: Two years later, Joey actually admitted to me that he had made up the entire Florida thing and winked at his liar of a mother behind my back so she'd go along with it. Hmm...did he mention that someone who lies like that should be in a mental institution?
Anyway, I bought the jerk's Broadway monologue (or maybe I didn't, who knows) and stayed with him for another couple months after the Florida incident before leaving him. I've actually told you the story about how I left him. Now you know why I didn't feel so bad for leaving a guy for his best friend. ;)
Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy or girl who was a pathological liar? Did THEIR FAMILY lie to you, too? What happened?
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- From: Jenn
- About Me: I have been on more bad dates than I have fingers and toes to count on -- and I'm only in my early twenties! I laugh when I watch 'Sex & the City,' because I've had so many dysfunctional relationships that they might as well as made me their 5th friend. Even so, I used to love going on dates with different guys (now I only let one guy take me out on dates), eating great food, and talking on the phone until 3AM. I never did get over the idea that a guy should treat a girl like a princess -- even if I've encountered one too many frogs.
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Comments (28)
This situation sucks but honestly from your posts I would say that people probably value and respect you as much as you value and respect them.
ohhh yes had a pathological first love. Then had a pathological liar best friend in college. Literally, both were liars like u would not believe!!! they'll get whats coming to them tho. karma.
that's weird that you called his mother by her first name. I'll usually call them ms./mrs.(bf's last name)
it seems like 2 assholes, who competed for a girl, who they didn't even really like, but just wanted to "win" at the game. all 3 people seem immature and insincere.
Oh, Jenn... *hangs head and shakes it in disdain*
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I'd have some sympathy for you if you hadn't flirted with Chris behind his back (which you've already admitted to), and then dated him pretty much straight after Joey came to his senses and ended things. Stop being so nasty to people and maybe they'll respect you too.
I'm pretty sure he had his reasons to do it. If a guy genuinely loves his girlfriend I'm pretty sure he wouldn't make up such a crazy lie. Besides, from your posts, I'd probably do the same thing.
Why is everyone making it out to be Jenn's fault? No matter how fucked up you are to somebody, why would you make up a lie that big? Just break up with the person. It's all fucked up.
This is similar to blaming the victim, seriously. The only reason shit relationships like this go on for that long is because both people are either contributing to the drama, or one or both people are allowing the drama to go on. If somebody isn't treating you right, break up with them! That's no excuse to act like an asshole. FUCK.
RESPECT FOR YOUR BOYFRIEND.
This story is ridiculous. Everyone involved, his mom included, acted childish.
@ohforrealson@xanga - Jenn's the one who's lying as well, trying to make Joey think he was the problem for the whole break up when it was Jenn who snuck behind his back wanting to get with Chris his best friend.
That ought to tell you something if even his mom covered up for him. LOL Jenn's the most childish for getting with Chris, Joey's best friend right after they break up and making Joey think he was the problem when it was really Jenn sneaking behind his back trying to get with Chris. Sorry hunny still no sympathy from me since obviously you learned nothing from this situation and you still think you're the victim.
It's a two way street for break ups. Jenn could have broken up with Joey easily to get with Chris, but no, Jenn snuck behind Joey's back. She admitted in earlier posts that she did, even in Part I that she would flirt with Chris right after she hung up on Joey.
Oh boo hoo Joey broke up with you. It's not like you actually gave two shits what he did when you got with his best friend right after.
I think you got what you deserved, too OP, especially for trying to pin this on Joey when it was mostly your and Chris' fault for sneaking behind Joey's back and lying about it.
honestly jenn, i'm not surprised. you got with his best friend, that's a line you don't cross.
Based on your past posts, I can't really blame him. Sorry. But you come off really obnoxious.
@nihaokeisha@xanga - I wouldn't, not even to the worst person in the world. Reasons or not, it doesn't justify the actions or the behavior of anyone involved. It's pretty fucking childish.
@Hinase@xanga - I'd just break up with that bitch Jenn if I was Joey, but I could see where Joey was coming from completely understand why he did it. His so-called best friend ratted him out like that, and even his mother followed through with the lie. The two people he trusted most in the world, snuck behind his back and got together straight after he ended things. I think that's even more nasty making someone think they were they problem when that's not the case at all.
Back hand the bitch.
@shimmers - Either way, two wrongs really don't make a right.
@Ashley Nicole Anders@facebook -
Oh, I agree I don't hold back on calling this bitch anything. It's completely asinine of her to call Joey a dirt bag when she snuck behind his back with his best friend.
Furthermore Jenn, you are more of the dirt bag for dating his best friend right after almost tearing up a "bromance" and not giving any shit about anyone else but yourself. Who's the dirt bag, dirt bag? So stop calling Joey names which suit your punk ass better.
Also Jenn, nothing is ever justified for you leaving him for his best friend, when he probably caught onto your antics earlier and wanted to give you a taste of your own medicine. You developed feelings for his douche of a "best friend" way before he lied to you like that. Basically, you were the one lying first. So you can lie to Joey, but you get your panties in a twist when Joey lies to you. Classy.
P.S. You and "Chris" do belong together, not because you're meant to be, but because you're two nasty people who deserve each other.
I mean it's insane that he did that to you; he really should have just told you straight up he didn't want to be with you. But you shouldn't have been flirting with Chris behind his back. It works both ways. If you were getting interested in someone else you should have ended it.
All I have to say is do you not remember writing this bit:
http://www.datingish.com/748421801/i-fell-for-my-boyfriends-best-friend/
LOL, as if i'll feel sorry for you.
Read the responses to THAT post.
@shimmers - You're obsessed with Jenn lol
I'm not sure who fails worse, you or him
@LoveeLikeASunset@xanga - And you're obsessed with stalking my comments, LOL
O Haiii!!! it's one of jenn's wannabe smart alec defenders thinking she can talk about me!
So you can stalk me to tell me how I'm "obsessed" with Jenn, but I cannot comment on her posts, eh? Look in the mirror for who's obsessed with WHO. If she's going to take up datingish with hypocritical drama I will comment on it whether you like it or not. However, that does not make me obsessed.
It's funny how you think you have the right to call me "obsessed" when you and people like you follow me around every post I post at of Jenn's telling me I'm "obsessed" with Jenn.
According to your logics you must be obsessed with me then. I can already tell who "rec'd" your dumb comment without looking who rec'd it.
Really, you PATHETIC defenders of Jenn have admitted that you can't wait to read Jenn's blogs because of her haters comments, and you think you can get on me for being "obsessed" with her, LMAO.
KEEP TALKIN'! Obsession is you awaiting Jenn's blogs just to read her haters comments. :)
Since Jenn talks about the same thing in virtually all of her blogs from now on I'm not even gonna bother to comment on arrogant jack asses like you. I'll just give your queen you're obsessed with ZERO eProps.
Well, regardless what you did to/back to him, he still shouldn't have lied to you. And his mom, too? lol Geez. Two wrongs, obviously, don't make a right.
@shimmers - Eh, I just like reading comments in almost every blog I read that I find somewhat interesting, so don't flatter yourself in thinking I'm following you ;)
I just happen to notice that I don't see you post much on other blogs but EVERY single blog of Jenn's that I've read, there you are getting all butthurt over her! And you go around being a bitch to people who defend her when they don't say shit to you first.
And just because one or two people have said they cant wait until she posts just to see your ridiculousness, doesn't mean we ALL feel that way! I don't even like most of her blogs that I've read, she does seem pretty lame but that doesn't mean I have to be biased towards every damn thing she writes. I don't even know what half her blogs are about! Good try though.