Thursday, 21 July 2011
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Do Your Friends Prevent You From Meeting Guys?
Ever find yourself standing in a crowd with your best girlfriends and no one else approaches you the whole night? Your friends are actually aiding you in giving an intimidating vibe off to others and there's really nothing you can do about that. Except separate. I'm not saying ditch your friends or just stop going out with them but it's proven that the girl's approachability is much higher when surrounded by less people.Also it would help if you went out with your single girlfriends rather than the girlfriends who are taken. Those friends of yours actually give off an intimidating vibe as well as the "stay away, I have a boyfriend!" vibe which literally pushes all guys away from your vicinity. If some of your friends have what I like to call the bitch face then maybe try to tell them a joke or be social and walk around by yourself.
So the next time you go out with your friends make sure you don't end up dancing in a circle all Dane Cook style or you'll end up dancing all alone.
Do your friends damper your style when going out and meeting guys?
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- From: CarlyPaige
- About Me: Currently I am a college student studying English and Education. A true monogamist, I have only had 2 serious boyfriends but have been single for 2 years. The dating scene in college is complicated to say the least and here I will share with you my experiences, my friends experiences, both past and present as an example of what to do when confronted with awkwardness, confusion and love.
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Comments (9)
Just friggin' ask guys out.
sometimes bc they don't want to be social or they don't have the guts to walk up to guys to talk or are shy so it does hinder it sometimes. if i want to meet guys, then i just go with girls who are going to be willing to meet guys or i go by myself.
umm i don't think so, but would be depend
Yeah my friends are always stopping me from having sex with random strangers in bar bathrooms. They're such downers.
it depends. i'm experienced enough at this point to know which girls are out to be social, and which are not. but most guys aren't. i'm wondering though, why do you go out with girls who are taken? i (almost) literally never hang out with people in relationships. they're no fun.
@thisiswhereItellyoueverything@xanga - hahahahahaha.... i get it and i love it
Yeah this is a fair blog. I certainly assume girls dancing in a circle, or who have their backs to the whole bar (huddled in a group) are not out to meet anyone new. Must suck to be in such a group. Sucks more to be in a group of guys like that, who look down on your efforts and peer pressure you into not trying...
I don't believe that they do that out of a desire to NOT be social
I think they just fall into old habits and maybe out of shyness.
It's easier to do what you are comfortable with...than to risk a new lover ;)
this is something I should take into consideration. hmmm