Wednesday, 06 July 2011
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Take a Dirty Picture for Me
If your boyfriend ever asked you to, would you take a dirty picture of yourself for him? Personally, the thought of it is both flattering while also frightening. The idea of your boyfriend being turned on by the sight of you may be an ego boost, it's just the possibility of this photo being found or posted on the Internet that's terrifying.
Through each celebrity scandal I have seen spread across the pages of perezhilton.com and watched on E! News, I have learned that anyone can find a naked picture of you especially when they are so easy to share. Of course people are more interested in the lives of celebrities but still, what if the picture is accidentally sent to your boyfriend's mother?
If you are completely terrified of the backlash that may come with this photo being shared by accident or even on purpose after a breakup, I wouldn't send anything to a boyfriend. However, if you don't mind taking dirty pictures, I would recommend not showing your face. It's easy to say "that's not me but thank you for the compliment" rather than having to say "Someone photo-shopped my face onto that body...that has the same birthmark on their shoulder..."
Would you take a dirty picture of yourself for someone you are dating?
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Not into it
sure, but it depends on how much I trust the guy. I'm a pretty good judge of character so I doubt I'd be dating someone who's going to be pissed about our break-up and go post photos of me all over the internet. besides, if he's the type to do that then it's a good thing you broke up with him after all.
I would take one, but I wouldn't send one. If it's on my own personal camera, in my own personal files for me to show to him then yes. I would never send a text or email of myself naked. Not because I worry about someone seeing it, but because to me that's pornographic, and that's not my personal cup of tea.
I really don't know. Of course I'd be nervous about it getting into the wrong hands, but I think at the same time, I'd be really embarrassed because I would probably think I look horrible in the picture.
Nope. I don't trust where it might end up. You never know who might get hold of your boyfriend's phone/computer account, and who knows, if you guys break up, he might post it all over the internet as revenge. It's not worth it.
they usually don't even have to ask. I'm just naughty and like taking pics for him as a surprise. when he directly asks, I often rebel and don't take pics. I don't like bossy demands and do it when I want to. I don't pressure him to do anything he doesn't want to either, so if he wants to take pics, ok, if not, don't, because I don't want him to feel obligated to since it would defeat the surprise.
I just don't date untrustworthy guys. It's something to learn before dating them...
i have. and i'm still with the guy who has them. i trust him, and he's jealous enough not to share.
I wouldn't do it.
@MiaJoyTheWriter@xanga - it's not about not trusting your boyfriend. What if someone borrows his phone and sees the pictures? What if that person forwards them on for a laugh, or posts them on the internet as a practical joke? Your boyfriend might be trustworthy, but what about his friends? What happens if you break up and he takes it badly and spreads your photos around as revenge for you hurting him?
I just don't think naked photos are worth the potential risk that comes with them.
I never asked them, i just did it :) they were fine with it.
@catastrophic_surveys@xanga - I guess it goes with knowing if you can trust his friends or not too. All I know is I've never had a problem. Maybe I just date mature people.
This is something i deffinately wouldnt do, ive told my boyfriend before "if you want to see me naked i'll show you but you're not getting a hard copy of it, take the picture in your mind." im not going to put myself in that position.
@MiaJoyTheWriter@xanga - yeah, I think as you get older it's obviously less of a problem, as people become more mature and more trustworthy with age (as a general rule). But I know a lot of younger girls who've done it and regretted it.
it depends on the definition of "dirty" because I like dressing up, so when I say that I've taken naughty pics, it is similar to the example pic of the victoria's secret model. I wouldn't take any porn-ish spread eagle pics
it will always come and bite you in the butt.
I have because my guy is in Iraq. The poor boy needs something to get him through a year deployment. Plus, he returns the favor. it's one of many, many ways we stay connected to each other. But I trust him more than I've ever trusted anyone.
Would you take a dirty picture of yourself for someone you are dating?
I've done it. Yes, I should be more prudent because I never know what may happen. I woudn't be surprised if a couple of exes showed some pics around.
If you take pictures, you got to expect them to be seen by more than one person. The risk is always there. Your partner may be trust worthy, but what about if his phone is stolen, or someone takes a look at his phone when he's not around. Boom, suddenly your picture is all over the internet
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i have done it as an idiot teen but i always took one of my reflection and had the hand that held the camera cover my eyes and brows lol. i did that because i thought i'd get famous and wouldnt want it to bite me in the asss lolol
I've done it and I regret it heavily. Wouldn't ever do it again. There's no point for someone you're dating to have a dirty picture of you. They can see you in person.
I sorta did but it's not like those porn pictures you're thinking of, I'm not ashamed of the pictures I took, my ex asked me to pose like a model for him, he liked my legs so he'd take photos of it when I had tights on-_- foot fetish ugh.
Hell, I've done it.
I have. Twice. And he knows that I expect them to deleted and he did so. He also knows that I'm not that comfortable with it, so that if I do for some reason do it for him, he knows he should be grateful lol. And they weren't super dirty.
I've done it, both with being asked and not being asked. It's just one of those things. I've never had anything bad come of it, so I guess I'm lucky like that. My boyfriend usually deletes them right away though since friends/family are always going through his phone.