Tuesday, 05 July 2011
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Simulating Sex On The Dance Floor
Hands running up and down the sides of my body as I slither my hips side to side, up and down. Then again strong hands gather my hair to one side as his lips meet the nape of my neck. My face is flushed reacting to what our bodies are doing, my body reacts to the heat and imitates what I would do in bed and the friction is almost unbearable. I'm feeling pretty hot and bothered and we aren't even having sex.Grinding was something I was introduced to during my first school dances. We didn't know exactly what we were doing, and not all of us had the best moves but it felt right. These dance moves actually served as foreplay and as we got older we realized why.
Something that's a huge turn on for me is a guy who can dance. I'm not talking about a ball room dancer, neither am I talking about those guys that think humping your butt from behind is a way to simulate sex. I'm talking about a guy, preferably with an athletic build, who can move to the beat against my body. There is just something so sexual about two bodies grinding together in a dark room with a bass too loud to talk and a beat slow enough to move just right.
So the next time you are out and you want to simply dance in a circle with your best girlfriends watch that sexy couple in the middle of the dance floor and know those two wont be leaving those moves on the dance floor.
Would you get turned on by grinding? Have a story about an encounter on the dance floor? Do you find yourself turned off when someone can't dance?
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love love love love love grinding and dancing to music with a guy. turns me on so much!
yeah, I've gotta admit that it feels pretty nice. it's super hot! I love it, hahaha.
I used to love grinding on the dance floor... as I got older, the grinding on the dance floor lead to grinding in my car or bed.
It's cool. I don't know, I would like to learn ballroom dance... ha
I've had one too many experiences with the awkward non-dancer who thinks dry humping my behind is sexy. Yeah. Not so much. Especially when the guy is a father of some of your kids at the preschool you work out who was currently going through a divorce and is not attractive at all.
So "grinding" has been ruined for me and it's really unfortunate because it sounds so nice.
I absolutely hate grinding. I remember dancing with one of my gay friends (who wasn't really out at the time) in high school and being shoved into him by random classmates. It was terrible and awkward.
I also hate college dances because that's all everyone does there too in a big disgusting mess. I sometimes go to those with my friends and drag my boyfriend along just to see what's going on. I love dancing and I am not afraid to be intimate with my boyfriend, but being shoved into him and expected to grind up against him is the most awkward thing ever to me.
Thankfully, my guyfriends and my boyfriend respect my decision to not grind, although it seems that most of my female friends give me grief for not doing it.
that's just slow grinding compared to the more aggressive bump and grinding, and not actual dancing skills. I'm turned on by hiphop dancers with actual choreographed dance moves, such as taeyang, usher, justin timberlake or even britney spears during her slave for you music video
I like to keep that kind of dancing private but you're right it's excellent foreplay. I'm just not interested in having an audience for it. For public dancing I prefer something less risque.
i actually hate that.
i think it's disgusting and i just don't like it at all.I usually end up dancing more to myself than with a partner because they can't keep up with my super-ultra-latin-moves. It sucks; I wish I knew some better dancers.
nah, im a total snob, i'd rather hit those latino beats by myself haha. i hate it when a random drunk dude tries to grind up on me when i'm getting my groove on on the DF. it's just not my thing, tbh.
Yes, with the right guy I would get turned on by that.
One time I was dancing with this Navy guy and he was fresh off his ship. It was just some friendly dancing. I wasn't trying to impress him. We were on this pyramid like stage so I was above him. I moved my leg and it swiped his crotch and I felt his uh, little hard one. He then said to me, "That's for you baby." And I promptly freaked out and said, "I have to pee," ran off the stage and into the restroom. haha I was only 19. I was horrified.
I didn't used to be turned off by someone who can't dance, but now I think I would. It is fun and as long as they think it's fun they don't have to be good at it. But being good at it would help!
i would really rather dance on the dance floor rather than partake in any sort of simulation of sex. i'd rather have sex than pretend-sex, personally, and when i go out to dance it is because i want to dance... meh, it's like watching food network when you're hungry instead of cooking.
i'm ridiculously anti-pda everywhere except the dance floor. at the club, anything goes.
grinding can be fun if i really like a guy.... but it's so awful/boring when the guy sucks at moving in sync or if i don't really like him
I love to dance and I love a guy who can dance. Its so hot.
oh yes that is the hottest thing ever. loveee it
idk. not super game. dont want some sleezy person all up on my goods.
depends on the guy. I prefer it when it's sexy, but not bent over lapdancing. Although, at 5'2 grindings pretty awkward with really tall guys, I just don't fancy rubbing up against guys knees.
I live in Ontario right by the border to Quebec where the legal drinking age is 18. You can imagine how many little kids have managed to pass fake i.d.'s at the door and grinded all up in my kool-aid to ruin this for me.
Although there's the occassional dancer who you just can't keep it on the dance floor with, I'll admit..
I'm not turned on by this. I thought it was always a bit tacky but that's just me. If I go to a dance floor, it's to dance, not to have pretend sex or grinding.
I can do this. And pretty well so I have been told. I suck at dancing on my own though. So my approach will always be terrible. Maybe I just need to try it more. I do really enjoy it, but I guess, being British, there is an inherent feeling of respecting others boundaries, so I have only really done it with a SO, and once or twice when I got lucky.
I enjoy it, but I don't feel comfortable with it, I won't condemn it, nor will I actively seek it. Still... Fun times right :)
Maybe it sounds ideal for some people to do and feel but for me to watch that, I find it awkward and makes me want to walk away :S those "get a room" moments. No offense.
I've only been to a club twice, one of those times being last night. Since I'm happily taken, the number of guys coming up behind me and dance raping me or asking me if i want them to 'distract' me tonight wasn't quite as exciting for me. :P It does make me feel kind of awkward, but I like dancing and having a good time, so I deal with it.
It's bad when people grind because they can't dance at all. But it's ok for people who at least have rhythym. It's like when people who can't sing use autotune. ew.